I totally agree NYStreetPickUp, great tips!
I like to introduce activities where Kino is normally going to occur, during a "date" scenario.
For example, i'll arrange to meet a girl at the bowling alley, then we can start the "high fives" when I get a strike, then some gentle negging when she throws a gutter ball!
It's easy to then to escalate from the "high fives" to a hug and further, since she got used to your touch.
The last time I ran this, I got from the bowling alley to nearby bar and back to my place, and it was really smooth. Needless to say once you have that much compliance and she comfortable with your touch, the rest is history!