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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 5:02 pm 
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Hey guys,

I have a problem with a girl I met 2 weeks back. We've been hanging out here and there and i've built up a good connection with her. I've found commonalities with her and we've reached comfort zone, she's been able to walk around with only a towel on around me.
Problem is, she is quite shy. So kino can be quite difficult on her because she seems to retract in to her shell every time i get touchy-feely with her.

She's showing small signs of attraction, I notice her constantly looking at me from the corner of my eye, she's tried to invite me round her place a few times and she always chooses to stand next to me when there's a group conversation happening. But i've noticed the past two days that the attraction is going down.

My question to you is how do I escalate the attraction and avoid being friend zoned? baring in mind that she is shy so she's not as open to sexual interactions


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 5:26 pm 
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she's tried to invite me round her place a few times
What is your problem? Like seriously? Do you require an actual green light above her head? I don't understand... Go over to her damn house.

No wonder she's losing interest. You're being a pussy and not responding to her IOIs at all.

Your window is closing...

Man the fuck up and touch her, kiss her, act interested around her.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 5:29 pm 
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Yes she is, stop lying to yourself and make a move, or lose the girl.

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 6:10 pm 
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she's tried to invite me round her place a few times
What is your problem? Like seriously? Do you require an actual green light above her head? I don't understand... Go over to her damn house.

No wonder she's losing interest. You're being a pussy and not responding to her IOIs at all.

Your window is closing...

Man the fuck up and touch her, kiss her, act interested around her.
I've been around her place when she's invited me and i've acted very interested around her, its just she pushes away when I get too close.
Does this forum usually have people getting rude and aggy to each other, i've seen quite a few threads now where this has been the case...


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 6:22 pm 
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How old is the girl. I've known virgin / inexperienced girls to act like this. You just have to help them feel relaxed so that when kissing / sex comes, it's not a big deal. It's one of the few occasions in pickup where you can actually be a "nice guy", no head games, no routines, just be genuine and ramp up the kino in a smooth way without being as aggressive as you would be with a seasoned slut.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 6:32 pm 
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How old is the girl. I've known virgin / inexperienced girls to act like this. You just have to help them feel relaxed so that when kissing / sex comes, it's not a big deal. It's one of the few occasions in pickup where you can actually be a "nice guy", no head games, no routines, just be genuine and ramp up the kino in a smooth way without being as aggressive as you would be with a seasoned slut.
Thank you that actually makes more sense, i'm dead sure she's a virgin, i've known other virgins who have acted similar and she's 18 btw.
Cool man, thanks for the help


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Look up -building comfort-

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