I wrote a big long thing about it logged me out so short details for now.

I met a girl (20 years old), I'm 29. She's a sorority sister.

We've gone out twice since then, after her shit-testing me a ton on my age.

Her sisters are about half and half divided between me being cool and half thinking I'm too old for her.

A bunch of them kept asking if she was, "alright" when I visited the house, chaperoned me and her (even going so far as to say that our chairs were too close and pulling them apart) and asking six times where we were going when she went upstairs to change. The story is known and gossiped about by her entire sorority.

It's making her a bit more nervous, but otherwise she shows strong signs of attraction (we haven't done anything but make-out yet but she's pretty enthusiastic about it, and I get fuck me eyes from her all the time).

How do I win over the sisters? I'm not used to getting such drama over my age - most girls seem to think of it as a positive.

I find it hard to believe they're legitimately giving her a hard time. It's not like you're 50 and old and grey... You're 29.

If it's not a big deal for her, it shouldn't be for you either.

You could flip it on her and tease her about liking old men... Or you could ignore it entirely.

Oh I tease her about it a ton.

And it really does seem like they're giving her a really hard time about it. So many different girls came up to "check up on her" and tried to drag her away from me, it was ridiculous. It was why we ultimately left for a walk.

If you have a huge group of girls trying to fuck up your game, don't hang out with your girl at the sorority house all the time.

And if one of the chicks does give you some shit just brush it off and tease the girl right back.

"Oh, yea I remember when I was young and silly too, so I forgive you." If said in a joking manner and and with confidence, eventually the girls will know they aren't getting to you and leave you alone. If you show insecurity, they'll keep this shit up.

Don't win over anyone. You're a near 30 year old MAN. you shouldn't have to be winning over anyone, let alone kids. Man up and instead of trying to be cool for high school chick's start making them prove they're mature and cool enough for your lifestyle. I swear, you older guys dating younger girls miss the point. The older you are over the girl means it's supposed to be easier. Not you coming down to their level.

Walk in to the sorority house and just start flinging your cock in any pussy thats about ! pretty sure you'll win them over that way ! In all serious though dude. Neo is correct they are acting like 10 year old girls the girl is 20 god damn she has PUBES ! lol just say look sort yourselves out

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Yeah... You're supposed to be an authority due to your age. She's supposed to hang with you then go back to her friends and mock how immature they are and how younger guys are tools compared to you. She should be trying to prove she is not a young immature girl to you, not you proving you can win over her immature friends.

I think you're all mischaracterizing my mindset on this.

I don't need validation or to "prove" myself to the sisters.

I want to effectively deal with them in the most efficient way possible. It's a similar question to, "If I were trying to run for office, how do I win over the crowd?"

I don't mean to imply they have any power over me. In coarse language, I want the most effective way to manipulate them.

And I agree, isolating her from her sisters is usually the best idea, but that's not always going to be possible, since she lives with them.

You want to win them over. Spin it anyway or reword it but that's what you want. But you're coming down to their level not challenging her to meet yours. For example, I'm 27..if I date a college girl do you think I'm fucking her in her dorm? Am I going to sign in and give my ID to the front desk to fuck her in her small room? No. I'd be taking her to my place and fucking her there so she looks at her dorm as a piece of shit. She'd be telling her friends how great it is she's with an older guy because she can fuck in privacy. As a grown man you shouldn't have anyone chaperones you and pulling your chair apart. Don't play their game. She's in control here and even if u win the friends over you're still seeing her as the price which kills attraction. The guy who fucks her will be the guy who doesn't give a fuck about her sisters and when they try to judge him he grabs her and fucks her.

I'd fuck in a dorm, that sounds funny as hell.

Do you. Forget what anyone else thinks.

Thread is full of a whole lot of bad advice.

I imagine this all started because when your girl mentioned your age one girl went "OMG THAT"S SO OLD" that girl is one of the leaders and every other girl piled on. Girls group think as it is, but it's much worse with sororities.

The constantly following you around thing, smacks of one of her friends having a frat brother she wants her to date. May be the same girl who did the "OMG" thing.

It strikes me as a sorority with very, very strong ties to just one frat. The easiest way to break out is to have friends in the frat.

The only thing the lead Sorority whores care about is what their sisters and brothers think. It's very difficult to win them over from the outside.

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I agree - I tried to push it in a positive direction, but nobody really addressed the question (they're all concentrating on inner game, something I've got rock solid in this situation).

I think you're pretty spot on in your analysis. I suspect one of her sisters has a guy they want her to date (and if they didn't have an intended one, now that I'm in the picture I'm sure they'll think of one in short order). I'll ask about fraternity connections tomorrow - she is at fraternity parties relatively frequently.

My suspicion is that if I had won over her sisters somehow, we would have fucked already. She definitely wanted me last time I saw her. The girl herself seems to genuinely like me (she asked for my number, she's complained when I haven't texted her enough, she got pretty jealous when she saw a picture of me out with another girl), but I feel she's getting huge social pressure here.

This is certainly a different adventure than the standard pickup. I'm actually quite excited to see how it turns out - whether in failure or success. My trump card is that she hates attention being withdrawn from her (don't they all, though). I have a date with another girl (of equal or greater hotness) set for Sunday, so I'll be sure to post a picture to social media.

I might even ask SG out first, in a way that she's likely to refuse, that way she notices very closely when I'm out with another girl later.

That's two terrible ideas.

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I don't know where you got that anyone is preaching inner game here. You're the one who brought up your mindset. Me saying not to play their game has nothing to do with inner game, same way if I had said grab her and kiss her. You are getting a TACTIC for the situation. If your question is how can you win over her sisters... most likely you cant. But trying to and bringing yourself to be chaperoned and judged by college girls is most likely gonna kill attraction. Be the badass older guy. Be dominant and make the plans. I was never in a frat but I fucked many sorority girls in college by not being the guy who did the whole follow their rules thing. Those girls have tons of guys being overly nice and placing importance on their sorority and the rules. Be the opposite. Be the guy that's stealing her from the house for sex as opposed to the guy being grilled by her sisters. Sorority girls like that breaking rules behind their sisters backs shit.

Analyze why they have oppositions all you want but what can you do? Can you make friends with frat guys? Not likely, assuming you're out of college at 29 and its too much work anyway for a chick. Theyre young girls man. If someone has a way for you to win them over please present it. Take control of the situation and fuck her. LEAD her away from that stupid stuff.