| It really isnt as simple as that, there is a whole lot of factors you have to take into account. In my opinion to be direct in daygame you have to already be attractive, or she wont talk to you. Many would have you believe that confidence in what you say will get you through, but no. Imagine an ugly girl approaching you in the street and saying 'hey, i think youre cute'. you'd just be like 'thanks...see ya later'. And furthermore you need somewhere to go afterwards, otherwise you'll grind to a halt immediately.
"Hey, i thought you were cute so I just wanted to come say hi"
"oh, thank you!"
"So um...uh... What you up to?"
That just sucks. So if youre gonna go direct be ready to transition to something to get a conversation going.
Indirect is a lot slower but obviously a lot safer, but you have to direct the interaction to where you want it to go, dont just get stuck in small talk, coz once youve asked "whats your name?" "what do you do?" "Where are you from" etc. there's nowhere to go.
Really you've asked a huge question which probably cant be answered in one thread so my advice would be to take the time to research daygame, there is tons and tons of stuff out there. Then youve got to find out what works for you personally. To be honest, like a lot of things in pua theres no right or wrong, black or white. Like, I know exactly what to say for direct approach, but I dont have the inner game and confidence to pull it off, so I stay away from it. Its gonna take a lot of trial and error, and plowing through it.
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