The one sticking point I have consistently that I've never really figured out is hooking a girl. How the hell do you do it??? Examples please! I'm frustrated as hell. I can get the initial interest and most women find me attractive enough and I can easily get a make out but I believe they only make out with me because I'm a fairly attractive guy. But when it comes to the second date - nada! I never get those big "I'm so into you eyes" like I've seen so many other guys get. I mean I have on rare occasions so I know what I'm looking for. I just don't know how to do it and it is what is killing my dating life. Please help!

you're thinking way too much about it, youre probably a boring date and shes not enjoying your coompany

heres what you do:

1)go out a lot, go approach a bunch of girls and have fun while you're doing it....learn to not care about the out come.

going out as much as possible will teach calibration, you will be able to tell a woman is feel and how to behave accordingly

2) on your dates try to have fun, thats your focus, enjoying yourself.....the way to get everyone to want to hangout with you is by being a happy person.

3)escalate on your dates, learn to naturally be touch, so the escalation is smoother, hug the girl, hold her hand, kiss her

4)go on as many dates as possible, repetition is king, also chances are youre not comfy on dates, but thats ok keep going on dates you will be more comfortable

theres not substitution for hard work mane