first things, i have no problem talking to women.. but here is my problem.

First off i am 6'5" and to stand out even more, i have pretty long hair for a guy.. and the girls i talk to love it, they are like "omg i love your hair" and "can i feel it?" i dont know if that would be considered an IOI or just saying you have nice hair.

and second.. they always ask "What do you do to it?" there in lies the problem.

i always tell them the truth, i do nothing to it, i just wash and blow dry it..

i want to tell them something interesting and i dont know what??


Any ideas????

lol, ok have u ever seen Tommy Boy? ya know the scene where Chris Farley explains to the waitress why hes a bad salesman? he says:

"i have a sale and i stroke it....and pet it...."

id say just that, like this:

HB: "what do u do to ur hair?"

ME: "well i stroke it... and pet it...mmm so soft"

just somthing along those lines, im sure itd get a laugh or two. just go straight into the chris farley character tho, say it like he does.

haha thats a good idea.

thanks..

keep them coming

Hb: omg i love your hair" and "can i feel it?

You: (Grab her hand and move it towards your crotch, but stop before you get close - Kino c/f)

Hb: What the hell are you doing!?

You: *Big Smile* Oh sorry, you meant the hair on my HEAD.

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^^ "I thought you meant the hair on my head"

Thats bad and creepy, also kind of discusting.. not many girls like hair down there lol This is coming from the ones Ive met.

Yeah, i wouldn't grab the girls hand and pull it towards your crotch - bad move!

Possiblities could include

a) Unlike you girls, i dont take ages doing my hair, out the shower and ready 10 minutes later!

b) Are you a hairdresser?

c) This is what god gave me? nice, eh?

d) Nothing.... i must have good genes!

True, I stand corrected. (AFC thinking too much I think)

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And what makes you think you are special enough to touch my outgrown protein follicles? *smile*

Heh

check out this pick up vid from chris farley, it's hilarious !
search "chris farley trying to pick up girls at the mall" on youtube

It's not that you had an AFC moment, it is just a very fine line between C&F, then negging, then an insult. I mean, that would be a good move ot pull if it was your friend and she knows you for a long time and you want finally take the friendship to the next level with an attitude change. But to a girl you jsut met that says, "How do you do your hair?" or w.e... that gets in the insult/creepy/stalk/pervert zone..

this is an example of not giving a straight answer. does anyone have more examples? i'm kind of lost on this aspect as i haven't heard enough nonstraight answers to start making my own. anyone have a good one for ...

"when are you gonna take me on a date again? "

or maybe an answer to this shit test (i think)

"since when did you get so cocky?"

"I get paid top dollar for that kind of info, but I'm willing to barter" (k-close)

"What do I look like, a stylist?"

"If you think this is great, I'm never asking you to give me hair advice.... My hair is terrible"

how do these work for you?

Grawr

HB: What do you do to it?
PUA: Stop..! That is a question which you don't ask from men! Same as I would ask you how do you take care of your beard ... God I feel like a girl now.. So how do you take care of your beard?
HB: *Giggles*blahblah...

That should beat most of the normal answers.

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HB: can I touch your hair?
pua: *say something cocky funny... whatever works*

OR you can make her do the cool test

pua: I can't just let anyone touch my hair they usually have to pass the cool test! (sound kinda joking in the delivery)
HB: whats that?
pua: ha ha well so far your failing, everyone cool knows about the test
HB: let me take the test! giggle
pua: sorry love, to pass this test you have to ask me politely....... but you know what, you show great spirit *lead into your next routine*

try it, I like to do the cool test during my routines, its a pleaser. Seems like it can work in your situation. I have read another post with a more intricate cool test if your interested but I personally like to keep routines like that short if possible.