Not sure if anyone is familiar with Michael Fiore's "Text Your Ex Back" Program but I'm reading through it and want to see if anyone has used it and if so was it successful or unsuccessful.

As far as ANY advise that anyone might be willing to give heres the situation.

I was in a relationship for 6 years. The girl moved 1000 miles to be with me when I got a job offer but once down there she was miserable being so far from her family and all she had ever known. Right before she came down we had a huge fight about a male friend of hers and nearly broke. With all of that it put a major strain and I didn't deal well. We fought a lot, I spent all my time at work trying to pay bills but also because I didn't want to go home and fight.

In november I finally got my shit together and started being there for her. The end of the month she had a stroke. She freaked out and flew back to be with her family for a month during recovery time (The despise me). By Christmas she decided she didn;t want to be with me any more, told me after new years when we got back to our home. She was gone within a week. The day before she left she told she had made a mistake and wanted to stay, She had burned every bridge there and had already borrowed the money to move and her truck was packed.

I thought I could let her go, but we talked every day after that for months. She started dating other people though (she says because her friends pressured her to). In March, when she went on the first date I slept with someone that she hated. After her first date she told me she loved me and wanted me back. After a month I told her about the girl. We didn't talk for a while but when we finally did she said she loved me still, but she continued going on dates and things. I was prepping to move up in a few months, but instead moved that up, when I called to tell her the news she was on a date and later that night "In a Relationship" status on Facebook.

I moved anyway and spoke to her since. Told her everything and she said she still loves me. I am "an emotional black hole" for her and she doesn't know what to do. BUT she still can't forgive me for sleeping with that girl.

I don't know a viable play here.

So it's ok for her to date other people, yet when you do the same (and end up sleeping with somebody she doesn't approve of), somehow you're in the wrong?

Agreed on this. It's pretty much the best way to put it. If I were you, I'd just ignore anything she says and keep dating whoever I want. She broke it off, not you, so she pretty much should have no more power over your preferences. I haven't had nearly that much time in a relationship as you did, so I imagine it's hard getting over her. However, listening to what she tells you to do won't make things easier.

I agree with the idea that I shouldn't let her dictate who I'm with and not. But I do get where she's coming from, we were talking about getting back together and she hadn't slept with anyone. She had 1 date and called me after to tell me it was a mistake, about an hour after I smashed this girl.

The problem is, you only slept with one girl, and that girl was named and known to her.
She'd have just decided to let it go if it had been several.

She's choosing to get hung up on this. It's mostly a self esteem issue.

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RSDTyler

That's actually a really good point. Focus is the enemy, lol. Thanks.

No contact rule is the Way to heal yourself and her into mental and fysik Shake:)


Program is shit

So, just got new information. Girl has still not slept with the new guy. She is still pissed about me sleeping with someone else but refuses to sleep with new guy ... she told me she couldn't right now because of a recent surgery but on talking to a mutual friend it turns out she hasn't at all ... been spending a lot of time talking to me while she's not around him but then nothing if he's around... she's obviously hurt in some way. Not even looking for advise here. Just wanted to update somewhere since I can't talk about it.