i called this girl once so far, onlly for 6 minutes and she was drunk too so it was hard to talk to her.

but she finally called me tonight after telling me she was going to.

she was on the way home and it was getting late so she just called me in the car and talked to me once she got into the house and was sitting in her room. i played it pretty well, a couple of minor negs, and teasing, shifting her ego a bit. but she was actually really talkative. i didnt expect it. like i didnt even get to use my ftc until late.

she kept telling me stories. she was doing a lot of talking. its not like i was quiet at all. i commented on everything she said and did well. but i feel like i was starting to let my game down just a tad.

i wasnt sure if i shouldve really kept the call short as possible, or since she was so talkative if it was a part of comfort and rapport. so i kinda hung in there.

i broke one rule tho, i didnt make the plans for the weekend like we were talking about earlier. i really didnt know what she had in mind, just us, or with friends or what. and honestly, i didnt know what would be appropriate.

she said she didnt know what to do, and i negged her for being boring. but she gave me her times off and was asking me what i wanted to do. any ideas on how i should approach this?

also, not having to do with our plans, is it a good idea for me to send her some random, cute lil text(s) within the next day or 2?

another thing, within the past couple of months ive only number closed 3 times. (2 hb7's and her, hb8). 2 of them i know for sure were very interested in me without a doubt. and all 3 convos from these girls were very similiar. they all told stories and were talkative, and said stuff that is sometimes hard to respond to. only this girl did not ask me as much questions as the others.

is there a trend here? as to their attraction? or are the majority of girls really like that on the phone? like i described? before i started pua, phone convos were different.

thanks..

anyone?? i think it may be a better idea to hangout with friends first, we have never hung out before. but i don know theres not much to do in this lil town. im looking for long term relationship btw.

ok i think i can see what is going wrong. i believe you are starting to get into the lets just be friends zone. for me, phone and internet should just be a transition and plans to meet again and shouldnt go on for over 5 minutes. if you become her emotional tampon to just unload on at the end of the day, then she will just say "oh you are a nice guy". if you instead say this when she tries to talk you up a storm: "oh man. someone left their mouth running! i have to go but how about this: we catch coffee tomorrow and you can tell me all about x and y". that way she knows your not there to just comfort her. my suggestion is to wait a few days for her to call back. if by friday, she hasnt, call her and make plans for the next week.

another thing i noticed: if you are asking her what she wants to do or if she asks you and you dont have a plan down, girls will be typical girls and just not make up their mind and think lower of you for not providing for them. you come up with the time and the place. remember to say that you are going to be busy except for x time on x day. dont be afraid to push of dates for a week or two because you are "a busy guy". this shows her that you have a life and she is just extra fun on the side.

just take it slowly and smoothly. remember that you are not an emotional tampon nor are you an indecisive woman. you are a firm man who doesnt get knocked off his pedestal. what you say is what you say and any girl can take it or leave it. that alone should get you somewhere with this girl.

good luck!