Hey there,
I come from Berlin in germany so if there are any mistakes in my writings please forgive me. My problem is the following:

Several years ago I met a woman called Jennifer and I was in a lousy condition with no confidence or any inner game. This changed over the years and we didn´t meet for about 1 year after she cut my heart into two.(that was back in 2012). In 2013 we met again and I started to workout - get more confidence for myself and so on.And she did it again - she broke my heart. Now - that I am back on track with my life - that I´ve got my self confidence back and that I lost a lot of weight we finally started to meet again. (I don´t really know why I am doing this over and over again.) and now it seems like she is very much intereseted in me....I mean... at first it seemed like this. We dated,had fun,laughing and she showed me a lof Ioi's . And now..let´s get to the point - we started to talk about her and her life and I think I got a little bit too close to her heart and her feelings because she started to block and now since 3 weeks - no more meeting and so on.(she´s got a boyfriend now but he sucks (her own words) ). My problem is - the past and renewed...feelings? Don´t know how to put it. Should I freeeze her and see what happens?
(yeah I think I sound like an AFC)
Thank you for your advice,
Freaky81

Hey mate 1st thing I want you to do is read Eddie Fews's article take control of your emotion then read his article on being stuck in a negative feedback loop. That's your exact situation. Talking to her has not worked for you now on 2 seperate occasions trust me it won't work a 3rd time freeze her out don't contact at all she'll come to you trust me. Also read Gambler's friendzone destroyer I don't think you're friend zoned, but the techniques he describes will work great for pulling her to you. Everytime you meet her you're showing her she can have you, you need to change the pattern don't be availble don't meet her make her come to you and watch the tables turn. Follow that advice and it will work out keep us posted good luck!

Thank you for your advice Gunfighter28. I will read the articles and gamblers friendzone destroyer. I will freeze her from now on and I will keep you updated.

Cool mate. I also want you to go to www.understandingrelationships.com the guy that runs that is Corey Wayne he wrote an AWESOME book!! I want you to read it once you're done read it again once you have done that read it again. Read every single article he has on his website as well you'll literally feel your confidence increase as you're reading his material, and its all relative to your situation. Good luck!

What happened on these dates? No kiss or anything?
Here is what you should do: You ask her out ONE PER WEEK! So you call her OR text her something like "Hey when are you free to get together". She either gives you a date or she says some wishy washy shit like "I dont know, I have to check my plans" blabla.
You dont get mad or sad and say : "Well sounds like you´re buys at the moment, let me know when you are free to get together!" Thats it! You end the text or call and run. If you dont hear from her, do it again one week later. If she did not make any time for you in 3 weeks you just stop calling or texting or pursuing. You just sit back and do nothing. If she misses you or thinks about you she WILL reach out to you! Trust me.
You´re not going anywhere by over pursuing her.

Now...here is what happened since the last time I wrote. I froze her for about 2 weeks and she started to chase me - so far so good. We started dating again and we kissed and kissed and it was pretty awesome.She´s got a boyfriend and yeah - actually she cheated on him with me. She wanted to end her relationship with him but then they "talked" so "openhearted and real" that she can´t get away from him. I lost complete control over my emotional side and the next we met I told her everything. How I "feel" inside and so on....I know that was an AFC-move but I couldn´t help myself.I clearly fucked it up and the "friendship" is also ruined.Yeah that´s pretty much it but I'll get over it.

Live and learn man, live and learn. We've all been there. Most women want an aloof motherfucker who doesn't give much of a shit about anything but is sort of intrigued by her, just enough to want to fuck her. And that's reality. Enjoy with the next girls my brother.

Don't sweat it man I know its easy for me to say that because I'm not in your situation, but I have been before. By the sounds of things this girl wasn't right for you anyway. Keep your head up and roll on best of luck!