Hello to everyone !

I have developed a powerful approach game according to where I live in France.

But what I observed since some weeks is that the biggest part why I don't successfully close the deal is what I would call a sort of fear of closing. I have banged few girls since I was born, but the real problem is to bang complete strangers I just met in one or two hours.

In fact my real problem is this sort of being afraid of getting intimate with the stranger. This is a very big problem, and some guys don't have this problem as strong as me when they start the Game. There is a lot of books and videos about approach anxiety and all sort of routines, but what the writers forget is that most AFC are AFC and we need to learn from A to Z every part of the game, and including what I call the Fuck Close Anxiety.

Most of the girls I game them at maximum, but when it is the time to date and I am sure I will close her, it's like I just abandon, lost motivation and don't go any further.

What I would like to answer to this question and explode this last part of my Game :

[*][/b]What books/videos/MP3 can help me increase my envy to FC strangers ?
[*][/b]What is your experience about my problem ?
[*][/b]What could you recommend me to successfully destroy this fear of intimacy ?
[*][/b]Do you have exercises, or work books about this big issue?

My tip would be to stop masturbating for a few weeks until the circuits in your brain responsible for procreation start going haywire. Actually...stop masturbating in general. Rely solely on women for orgasms and you'll have no problem. The ultimate cure to anxiety is focus, exposure, and experience. After a few times you'll start to want it more and your anxieties will start to diminish. Just keep at it and good luck.

feel you bro. i have similar problems, but i truly believe that it's just anxiety and lack of experience etc. will go away if you continue pushing yourself and just calm down and learn to enjoy yourself!

you can try reading some David Shade stuff, for some bedroom routines.

you can quit masturbation to increase your drive, but it's not some magic cure. i know because i stopped too, but all i got is a lot of wet dreams and it's annoying and messy to clean each time.

I would like to expand a little to include pornography as it can cause problems with erection. But I still belive it's just anxiety and exposure will help.