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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2014 6:21 pm 
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Hi guys, I am a professional photographer lucky enough to work every saturday night sorrounded by 500 girls.
I consider myself quite good looking but I am really shy and I have big problems when it comes to show my interest in a girl, most of the times it is them chatting with me first but I would like to learn how to open the ones I like, the very hot ones I mean.
Could you suggest me some opening I could use after I took a picture of them? I need a standard opening I can use with all of them without thinking too much, then I will report you what they answer ;D

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2014 6:43 pm 
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You're putting WAY too much thinking into this.

The opener is so irrelevant... You can say almost anything. It's the conversation following the opener that matters.

Stay away from canned, cheesy shit.

You can seriously use something as simple as "I got some really good shots of you. You've got great energy" and go from there...


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2014 7:20 pm 
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The problem is that I cannot spend too much time when I am working chatting with them, I would like to say something or do something to understand in 30 seconds in they like me and then number close them right away :D


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2014 7:28 pm 
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You're putting WAY too much thinking into this.

The opener is so irrelevant... You can say almost anything. It's the conversation following the opener that matters.

Stay away from canned, cheesy shit.

You can seriously use something as simple as "I got some really good shots of you. You've got great energy" and go from there...
Yea.

If you're taking pictures of the girls, you've already opened them. And better yet, you are giving them directions and being the leader in the situation which right away is a huge bonus for you. Just say some typical compliment "you're a natural at this" "there's something really unique about your set, I can't put my finger on it" and then chat them up.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2014 7:40 pm 
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Yes sorry I guess I haven't explained myself very well, my problem is that whenever I talk with them I sound too professional, and as I am too busy even when I see they like me and they look at me I cannot get their number or bring it to a sexual level...and cause they are a lot I cannot talk with each of them for more than 1 minute, also they are often a bit drunk and horny cause they are going to see a strip show...


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2014 7:44 pm 
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You need to act more relaxed, more casual, and more cool, then.

There's no silver bullet or magic line you can use.

Canned shit will only get you laughed at - particularly with models who get hit on 10 times a day.

Use the simple line I gave you. Make some time and slow things down... If she's responding well, suggest that you're on a deadline but would love to talk to her after. How about a beer?


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Would any of these work? - "these images came out really well. WHy don't I print you up a set (or do a really amazing retouching job, or I'd like to use this for my portfolio) then ask them to type their email address into your ipad mini or phone. Or even better could you say stick around and lets do a more intimate series of shots, where you can get them into a sexy (but non nude) frame of mind.

I totally understand being in professional mode. I used to shoot fashion films and was around nude models from time to time.

Actually a friend working on a Victoria's Secret commercial called and invited me to the set halfway through the day because the models were changing on stage right in front of him and totally nude.

I did show up but after the shoot was over just to make some professional connections. I couldn't bring myself to walk in as a guest halfway through the day, since it would have been obvious why I was there. Had I been there all day, no problem. I think Stephanie Seymore was one of the models.


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Thanks guys, you are having very nice ideas :)
The girls are not models, I work for a big stripper company so they are all girls partying for a hen do, birthday party or just a night out.
I take pictures for them as groups generally, rarely of a single girl.
They are often quite drunk and very horny for the whole situation so I should use that in my advantage, often they ask me why I'm not on the stage cause I'm really fit.
I'm not happy cause if I would know what to do I could bring home a girl every Saturday easily, but everytime I feel like there are 2/3 girls that liked me but I didn't find a way to go further with them.
Thanks for the help, if you have other ideas now that I have told you the exact situation it would be amazing!
I have never tried to use my camera and job to get girls now that I think about that, I would hate to find out a girl accepted to have some sexy shoot just cause she is using me and my skills...


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Also they take so many selfies during the night!
Sometimes I jumped in, they are very happy about that, I also asked to send me over the picture on whatsap or to tag me on fb, but often it turned out they had a bf or they were married, I mean they were doing it to be kind not cause they wanted me
Only exception was a couple of months ago when a hb9.5 married with fake lips and tips and an amazing fit body decided I was the perfect escape from her boring marriage...but she basically did everything lol


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2014 1:36 pm 
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Dude, if i was in the position to be a professional i would jst have some sort of cocky approach when they want to see the pic just say 'ill show you if you agree to give me your number' or something silly like that jokingly your in a club environment, whats the worst they will say awww no i cant i have a boyfriend then just shrug it off with 'who said i wanted your number in that way'.

Thats the approaches i would go for remember also your sober they arent.

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Yeah Stenic that's cool!! I would like to try something like that, quick and easy, so that I can understand straight away if they are interested or not! Thanks, on saturday I will try and let's see how many numbers I get haha
Then if they agree I could ask them if they want the first date with me after the show, maybe in a funny way, a 5 minute date cause I have to work and I do not have more time, and I will try to kiss them at the end of the quick date...sounds fun :D


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2014 2:43 pm 
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Could try that dude personally my thoughts are thats over keen on a 5 minute date then trying to kiss them.
if they give you there number in the 30 seconds you have they are obviously interested so i would then text them the next day and escalate it that way so you get to know them a little rather than 5 minutes then trying to kiss close plus it would look needy hanging around at the end of the night. if its a group of girls you could always offer a run home ??

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