Hey guys, i think i need some advice.

I recently went out and met this girl i already knew briefly.
We were both drunk, but still in control and after a while we started to make out. At this point it seemed to me like she was into me alot. She asked me if we should drive home so fast i was really surprised, i agreed we went to my place.
But then she started to say like "im so drunk" a lot which i interpreted a bit in the direction of shes putting all the reason why this is happening on the alcohol which made me a bit insecure.
So at home we continued to make out in bed for a bit, but it was not very passionate. For the lack of passion i felt turned of and asked here if she wanted to sleep, she cuddled to me but nothin more and so i asked another time and she just didnt answer any more and we slept.
Im not sure what happened there, if i misiterpreted and she just wanted me to prove my confidence anf lack of fear of being rejected, or she genuinely regreted to come to my place.. well at least at this time I felt insecure and didnt want to force nor wanted to be rejected.

So man and i have to admit the next day she asked me to drive her home (shittest?) I did, which probably was a big mistake. Now a few days later i wrote her on fb and shes not responding. I know i probably fucked up a few things, im obviously not a pick up god and just lucky for being pretty handsome.
The thing is, i like this girl quite a bit and would be happy to meet her again.

You think theres still something to do? Otherwise well it would be at least nice to make my mistakes more obvious so i can learn from them.

Greetings from europe

The SNL was on. You didn't fuck her when she wanted it, so you blew it.

Lesson learnt hopefully?

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its one of 2 things, its either buyers remorse or not being perceived as a slut.
dont take this the wrong way:

buyers remorse basically mean shes had second thoughts and decided not to go through with it, think of it like going to a store buying a shirt then when taking it home deciding you dont like it then either returning it or putting it in the cupboard never to be worn.

girls dont like to be perceived as a slut so they choose not to sleep with someone especially if they know that person already. imagine she sleeps with you then it gets out that she slept with you on a drunken one night stand how will other see her, as a slut. people like to have a certain reputation, when guys sleep around other guys will say good for you what did she do. when girls do it the other girls go how could you do that dont you respect yourself

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

If she is going to get either ASD or buyers remorse, then he might aswell have banged her on the night,

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he should have done it on the night the next day shes had enough to think about it and why she shouldnt do it, alcohol loosens inhibitions when the alcohol wears off the guards come straight back up

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

Thanks for the anwers.

But how do I proceed if i get home with a girl I basically like, it wasnt only for a quick fuck for me.
Im not even that mad I didnt sleep with her, only if i would know that my lack of escalation would have disapointed her so much she dosnt want to talk to me anymore.
I know in the game you shouldnt always think what would she like, but respect my own needs and persue them.
But in a situation like this with a girl I respect I dont want to abuse her or whatever. Maybe im just taking the respect stuff to seriously..

But yeah crazy I think the next day would have been a hood moment to check the situation

The longer you leave the sex, you less chance you will get it.

So i would try to change that mindset and frame it as, 'striking whilst the iron is hot' and that it is a good thing.

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I think the best I can do now is just to forget about it, seems pointless to pursue this thing right now . If we ever meet again, we will see if there is some real attraction there or not.

For the next time I shall not waste this moments.

But one more thing, is it normal that girls in this situations dont reply to textmsg.?

YES, more often than not

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Her saying she was "so drunk" was basically excusing herself for fucking you. You took it personally when reality is being drunk was just her excuse for herself to be a "slut"(In her mind) and sleep with a guy she met on a night out.

No passion in the kiss? Just start massaging her thighs and suck on her tits. Then finger her and take off your pants. She'll take things from there and start wanking you off or sucking your dick. From there it's just a matter of sticking your dick in her pussy.

you took to long, should have been playing the push pull game the whole time.... and don't keep asking stay in control and act according to her body language... you fu**ed up bro

You don't know what you're saying.

Buyers remorse is when a girl sleeps with a guy, albeit way too easily and regrets it later thereby decreasing her chances of contacting him again.

I don't really care about PUA language and phrases that much, but one thing for sure is that you should have fucked her, end of story. You pussied out because your emotions told you to "treat her well" when all she wanted to do is fuck. It's not a surprise that she's not contacting you. As a matter of fact, it's the right thing to do.

Sex = higher investment from her side.