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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2014 9:02 pm 
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There's a chick I was getting with and could have fucked(Cock blocked). Met up with her and got drunk, ended up making an ass of myself and not remembering the night before. Next morning she wanted nothing to do with me.

What's the best approach to take this chick up again? I've gone NC, still got her on FB and sent her a message a few days after I said it was cool that it was over basically asking if we were okay to hang around mutual friends(Got no reply to this). It's been about two weeks now and i've noticed, although it could be coincidence, that she tends to mimic me movements on FB. For instance i'll post a picture of my dog and she'll do likewise the next day or i'll post some random shit on my wall and she'll do the same the next day although hers seems to be more aimed at her girlfriends. Before this she didn't post much. I reckon there's a bit of interest still there.

Best approach here? Keep in mind she ended it and I lost a lot of value the night before being drunk. She never did tell me what I did or talked to me after that... I really want to get back in there and bang her like I should have done long before.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2014 3:10 am 
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Dude. Over thinking much? Yes it's possible that she could be using Facebook to constantly remind you she is alive, but it is soo faar more likely that she is just posting a shitty picture.

All you need to do is open with one hell of an apology. Insouciant to any outcome. If she talks back, yay, if not you've lost nothing but have gained respect in everyone's eyes for being a man and admitting you were wrong.
Nonchalance is the key though.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2014 1:05 pm 
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Same girl GamesSN?:
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If it is, she's bat shit crazy, dude!


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2014 9:31 pm 
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Indeed it is.

I have this feeling she's within reach and she only ended it to get a foot ahead... If I can seize the day and fuck her I want to take it. Heh.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 26, 2014 10:06 pm 
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You got drunk, made and ass of yourself, and she dropped you from her life. So fuck other girls. You may see this as determination, but the reality is its desperation, it won't work, and your life will get much worse for it.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 27, 2014 6:22 am 
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Maybe... Had a few women on my last night out and things got strange even for me.

Fucking hell....... After all this I really do think I have what it takes to turn just about anything around. I definitely have the pull to do quite a few things even out of the most fucked up of things resulting in me getting harassed by women and touched up. :roll:


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 27, 2014 1:31 pm 
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If you got drunk and made an ass of yourself - then you're going to need some time for her to forget about that... maybe a week?

Are you talking to this crazy lady daily, still? If so maybe stop for a bit... then re-engage and say you think it's high time you two catch up.

Not sure what else to suggest GamesSN - you're plenty experienced at this, yourself... so if you're stumped, I'm not sure how I can help!


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 27, 2014 9:30 pm 
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I've pretty much gone NC since she put the breaks on it. I guess I know the only way to get her is to man the fuck up and get in touch, asking to grab a bite or something.


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 28, 2014 7:54 pm 
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If it's one thing that ruins my lays it's alcohol. Problem is I never learn, and I keep drinking until I'm tipsy most of the time.

Just give her a break. Maybe a couple of days for things to cool down and take her out. You can always know if she's interested or not. If you feel that she's flaking on purpose, plenty of fish in the sea.


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