Hey guys, really weird situation just came up, ill try to summarize it for you

-Dated this girl for 2 years, she was the first girl i ever loved and i was the first guy she EVER dated and had sex with etc. so obviously i was really special for her

-We broke up because a lot of drama, problems with parents, lots of jealousy from my part (i was a dumbass back then) etc. etc. not all my fault but partly my fault

-She started dating another guy like 2 months after we broke up, she is still dating him now

-She met my current girlfriend 2 months ago in a club and they talked and they ended up crying because my ex said she still loved me and always will and my girlfriend didnt like that bla bla. (I broke up with this girlfriend 2 weeks ago btw)

-Met my ex at a festival a couple days ago and i had taken XTC so ofcourse i was super nice to her (I have been avoiding her for the past 2 years and ignoring her because im afraid i will get feelings for her again). So when she met me and she saw i was being super nice she was super happy and she even cried when i said something nice to her. She talked a lot to me about our past and the good things about it bla bla, also said she still loves me because i was the first guy she fell in love with

-I told her about this concert i am going to in 2 months, also showed her some pictures and videos, said that i am probably going alone (Im a really big fan of the thing im going to) and she said she wanted to go with me. I ofcourse in my overly happy mood said that that was no problem and she could go if she wanted, it was fine with me, i told her to bring a friend if she wanted

-Texted later that day and the next day and she really wants to go, she asked permission from her boyfriend etc. and said she wanted to go with her friend


Now im wondering: Is this really a smart thing to do? Does she want me back? Is she really just going because she thinks the concert will be awesome? What is this. Lol

Im trying to decide if i should just cancel the whole thing and any advice is appreciated.

Thanks in advance

That's some trusting boyfriend she's got... Or he's stupid, one or the other.

I'm not sure if you're looking for validation that she's still into you, but your entire post reeks of it. She's obviously still into you.

This isn't complicated: You want her back? If you do - go with her.

First, figure out if you want her back. That's not something a forum can tell you.

But yes, she's still very much into you. If you don't want her back, make up an excuse and say you can't bring her. Say you just met a girl and are taking her instead. And then go out and meet a girl and bring her. And fuck her after the show.

It just seems weird to me, she's with this new guy for like 1 year and it seems like they have a good relationship, it seems weird to me i can get her back just like that..

We talked today for an hour on text, she seemed very interested in my life, wanting to know what i'm doing for work/school etc. Was a fun talk.

We'll see how this turns out, ill probably cancel it though, scared that i might get feelings for her again and that in the end she did just go for the concert and not go get back with me.

Dude pretty clear you still want her back. Why be afraid of what might happen...you might catch feeling for her she might not still have a thing for you. If you don't go you will regret it. Go have a good time and don't worry about anything while your there because you almost didn't go in the first place....playing with house money.