Okay heres da deal,
walked in to the only starbucks in my home town about 3 months ago with an ex who introduced me to the coffee to the find out how great the coffee was and a 9.0 asian hottie who completely took my breath away working behind the counter.
Her and i made eye contact, smiled at each other (and it was the IOI kinda smile) and my whole world stoped until i realized that my ex was with me. My ex who looks identical to Gwen Stefani and i are now apart (because do u guys beleive she made me choose between her and family) and have been for the last 2 months leaving me only to get back on my feet and start to sarge again.
The situation is that i go out to the bars,clubs etc. run my routines, find girls, get numbers, go on dates, get laid only to realize that its just casual sex which im gettin sick and bored of. so every time i go to starbucks and i see her my heart starts to race like a race horse and i get lost for words (which is unlike me cause im usually very talkative) and all we ever do is say hi each other, smile to each other, i choke so i order. I have it in me to open to her but i feel weird doin it while shes at work and i also just found out she has a BF. She seems very freindly but slightly shy so i got notin to lose and seems like my kinda girl due to her punkish look to her.
So i plan on opening up by calling her over the counter to whisper 5 yes and no questions like
- Do you like apples
- I just bought this hat, does it make me look stupid
- Do you enjoy drinking starbucks coffee
- Are your eyes really brown
- Would u say yes to me if i asked you out to dinner
* I would usually not invite girls out to dinner but for her i would*

Now what is your opinions on this situation?

If you have any better ideas pls do share

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All of those openers are bad, especially the "does this hat make me look stupid" one. Why would you cut yourself down like that?
Think of a cocky-funny opener that has to do with her appearance. So she works at Starbucks. Let me see what else you got.

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Rated R!

I work at starbucks and i can tell you from my own experience of having conversations with customers while working....it doesn't work. If it's a busy location then she will just be super stressed out and although might give you slight IOI's, she won't be able to talk.

Go in when you think it might not be busy. and if she isn't there then hell get to kno some more drinks and be really friendly with the people that work there. When she is working however (and it's not busy!) open her with a quick question eg: "do you think that i look like a drug dealer"" lol anything really. have something to say after that and then eject politely by saying ""well i better go grab my drink from the bar (the place where they make drinks at starbucks), don't want it getting cold but hey when are you on your next break? I wanna show you something cool"" show her magic, test etc... and DHV

If she says that she has already had her breaks or she doesn't know because it might be getting busy soon then say ""alright well remind me next time i see you, i usually come in on (say that day) fridays , saturdays etc...

don't leave right away, hang around and read for a bit so that she knows that you didn't just go there to see her

Hope that helped bro

Concur with Cool. Great advice.
This would be the reason you would not get her. You are to into her and she will reject it.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

yeah i guess you guys are right about the opening and the truth is that i really do go cause i enjoy the coffee.It jst happens that shes usually working when i do go.
Ive never opened at a girls workplace other then in a hair salon so thats why its a little weird also shes got a BF so i wanna use the right routine for this one guys theirs no room for error here. lol

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"Wats meant to be is meant to be and enjoy every minute of ur life as it comes to you day by day and dont let tomorrow judge today"

P.S. cool, that could work and its good hearing it from someone that actually works their lol

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"Wats meant to be is meant to be and enjoy every minute of ur life as it comes to you day by day and dont let tomorrow judge today"