To meet girls outside the bar/club scene? Frankly speaking I haven't gotten any for a really long time (1.5 years) and, naturally, I am beginning to go a bit nuts. I can't stand bars/clubs. I don't drink and actively involve myself in wholesome fulfilling activities that do not involve partying and I just detest the loud most of time awful music, crowds of people and just plain and simple getting ripped off blowing away cash(I'm older clocking in at 32). However, in terms of mating, clubs/bar are undoubtedly the easiest most probabilistic method of meeting others for the mating goal; furthermore, it seems it's a PUA playground.

Do I have any hope?

There is good news, and then there is bad news.

The good news is: you are probably NOT a cultural marxist.

This means that you are one who could constitute Western civilization building (focus on serious long term project instead of jumping from one flimsy distraction to another).

The bad news is: the scene where sex takes place is, in Western civilization, set against you.

This means you will probably have to go to Ukraine, Taiwan or another area not yet saturated with consumerism, hipsterism and feminism to get laid. But once you get there, you will fuck good.

You have to understand that Western civilisation wishes to die, and therefore it bestows sexual pleasures LEAST on its most productive members. (If this is too hard for you to swallow at first, notice that marginal gangster ghetto figures are sexualized in mainstream culture, whereas intellectuals, scientists and productive fathers, are cast as nerdy pushovers)