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PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 1:39 am 
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Yeah... I agree with the other guys in here. First off, go see a doc. There is so many possibilities here, you need to be closing doors for sure or else you will go crazy not knowing what exactly is causing your problem. Then again, if you can get it up while making out with her and while masturbating, I really don't think you have any physical problems.

Other than that, and looking at your age, there is three likely problems I could think of

1. Porn. Porn fucks your brain up for good. If you want more infos about that subject
yourbrainonporn.com
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is where you want to look at. Although your porn usage doesn't sound excessive.

2. Dominance. AKA performance anxiety. But not anxiety as in like "shit, I won't get it up" but more as in "shit, I need to perform". Ironic as it sounds, think of that girl as a simple fuckhole for you. Treat her roughly. I know it sounds a bit assholish, but don't even be willing to do too much for her. Just see her as a nice fuckhole to pleasure YOU. Just go for your pleasure and, ironically, she will get off to that as well. So it will all be good.
Also, if you watch porn (not too much, look at point 1), only watch porn where the male is extremely dominant etc. That will get you in the zone.
(My guess is that it is that)

3. Booze. Don't overdo it.

Think of her as a fuckhole? Treat her roughly? She's just there to pleasure him? Be extremely dominant over her? What kind of fucking stupid advice is that? He can't keep it up so your solution is that he take it out on her by being a nasty, little fuckwit? Your advice is ridiculous dude. She's a human being. Not some hole for him to fuck. Christ you guys are as dumb as dog shit. Treating her like a piece of crap is never gonna work you dumb fucking idiot.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 3:43 am 
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Yeah... I agree with the other guys in here. First off, go see a doc. There is so many possibilities here, you need to be closing doors for sure or else you will go crazy not knowing what exactly is causing your problem. Then again, if you can get it up while making out with her and while masturbating, I really don't think you have any physical problems.

Other than that, and looking at your age, there is three likely problems I could think of

1. Porn. Porn fucks your brain up for good. If you want more infos about that subject
yourbrainonporn.com
yourbrainrebalanced.com
is where you want to look at. Although your porn usage doesn't sound excessive.

2. Dominance. AKA performance anxiety. But not anxiety as in like "shit, I won't get it up" but more as in "shit, I need to perform". Ironic as it sounds, think of that girl as a simple fuckhole for you. Treat her roughly. I know it sounds a bit assholish, but don't even be willing to do too much for her. Just see her as a nice fuckhole to pleasure YOU. Just go for your pleasure and, ironically, she will get off to that as well. So it will all be good.
Also, if you watch porn (not too much, look at point 1), only watch porn where the male is extremely dominant etc. That will get you in the zone.
(My guess is that it is that)

3. Booze. Don't overdo it.

Think of her as a fuckhole? Treat her roughly? She's just there to pleasure him? Be extremely dominant over her? What kind of fucking stupid advice is that? He can't keep it up so your solution is that he take it out on her by being a nasty, little fuckwit? Your advice is ridiculous dude. She's a human being. Not some hole for him to fuck. Christ you guys are as dumb as dog shit. Treating her like a piece of crap is never gonna work you dumb fucking idiot.
Agreed in the sense that the above advice won't help.

Seriously, the problem isn't with her: It's with you. Just drink white wine, man. You'll lose those nerves and shit. It's that simple.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 10:40 am 
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Yeah... I agree with the other guys in here. First off, go see a doc. There is so many possibilities here, you need to be closing doors for sure or else you will go crazy not knowing what exactly is causing your problem. Then again, if you can get it up while making out with her and while masturbating, I really don't think you have any physical problems.

Other than that, and looking at your age, there is three likely problems I could think of

1. Porn. Porn fucks your brain up for good. If you want more infos about that subject
yourbrainonporn.com
yourbrainrebalanced.com
is where you want to look at. Although your porn usage doesn't sound excessive.

2. Dominance. AKA performance anxiety. But not anxiety as in like "shit, I won't get it up" but more as in "shit, I need to perform". Ironic as it sounds, think of that girl as a simple fuckhole for you. Treat her roughly. I know it sounds a bit assholish, but don't even be willing to do too much for her. Just see her as a nice fuckhole to pleasure YOU. Just go for your pleasure and, ironically, she will get off to that as well. So it will all be good.
Also, if you watch porn (not too much, look at point 1), only watch porn where the male is extremely dominant etc. That will get you in the zone.
(My guess is that it is that)

3. Booze. Don't overdo it.

Think of her as a fuckhole? Treat her roughly? She's just there to pleasure him? Be extremely dominant over her? What kind of fucking stupid advice is that? He can't keep it up so your solution is that he take it out on her by being a nasty, little fuckwit? Your advice is ridiculous dude. She's a human being. Not some hole for him to fuck. Christ you guys are as dumb as dog shit. Treating her like a piece of crap is never gonna work you dumb fucking idiot.
Fuck off you fuckwit, it's not my fault if your reading comprehension is sub par and you feel the urge to lash out at the slightest "hurr durr he's disrespecting girls I'm the whitekinght PUA". Just for the record, and I don't even know why I am discussing this with a keyboard primate like you, I never suggested he actually disrespects or uses her in any way, but to think of HIMSELF first. And yes, ONLY of himself, because that is where the problem is. That is where performance anxiety stems from after all, when you worry too much about pleasuring and performing well for others. I think it is quite obvious that when I gave that advice it was meant to be carried out on a mental scala, not to actually be the guy who cannot get it up and treats girls like shit to overcompensate for it. I never implied that, and anyone with a little bit of common sense would understand that. Peace out.

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It's just nerves man. Have you tried having a bottle of wine between you both before fucking? That should calm the nerves just don't get so drunk you're playing with a rope. After the first few times of fucking you'll calm down and fuck her no problem without needing to drink. It's down to more experience... Get more and you'll stop having this problem but wine is a sure way to fix it temporarily.

Wine pretty much keeps you both horny and doesn't impact your erection.
Yup.. I remember when I had to down 2 Four lokos before I could finally sleep with the neighbor.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2014 8:04 pm 
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I had similar issues when I was young and just getting into sex. Condoms can be a pain.

This is what I would try and worked for me.

Don't stick it in. Let her ride you and glide her wet pussy up and down your shaft. It will get you hard in no time, and you can even finish that way, and be pleasurable for her.

Try that a few times to get yourself accustomed to the process, then after a few times half way through slip on a condom (I think Magnums are good since they are not as tight) and see what happens.

After you are used to her sliding on you, and are hard, you can even begin imaging slipping it in, while still maintaning hardness. Not a threatening.

This could be risky (both need to have no STDs) but you could try a few strokes dipping it in with no condom for the added sensation then put one on.

Again it's risky cause there can be a sperm, but it won't be a full load. Maybe try that when she's almost ready to have her period or just after -which is the safest time.

Best of luck.


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