I was at a friend's birthday party, with my friend (who knows I'm into pickup stuff, and has gone from completely skeptical to relatively intrigued as I went from absolutely terrible with women to regularly sleeping with fairly attractive girls over the past few years).

His other friends were there, and one of them was a married couple and their 30ish year old female friend.

The night starts off well - I get our waitresses' number at the restaurant ("I have a boyfriend", "I don't care.", "Ok, here you go"), and she tells me when to text her so that her boyfriend doesn't see (the girls are -shocked- at this whole process)

Then we go to a dance club, where I steal a blowup doll from a bachelorette party (intentionally), and one of the girls from the party comes at me pissed. My group physically pull me away because it "looked like she was going to kick my ass" - note, I'm sober during this whole process and had the situation in hand - I think this was an honest mistake on their part - pissing off girls and then making them laugh is one of my favorite ways to win over a girl - if you can ride out the storm first.

Anyway, the part I'm really curious about, is when I had a relatively cute blonde girl. A bit older than I normally go for, but there were limited options in this nightclub.

I had already grabbed her number, and her friend was dancing on the dance floor with some dude. I pull her on the floor and she starts grinding against me, we make out briefly.

At this point, the 30ish girl (who is newly single) starts to pester me, and I walk over like, "What?" - I was in the middle of grinding with this girl. I go back to the girl I'm grinding with.

Then the husband and wife duo come over, and start grinding against me, the wife up against me, her husband behind her, so I'm in a four person sandwich, between two girls, and the wife grabs the girl I'm grinding with's butt.

I'm getting mildly annoyed at the cockblockiness of the group at this point - my buddy certainly didn't care and expected my behavior to be like it was.

I think it was the wife of the one guy who was the mastermind of it all - I'm pretty sure she has had a crush on me for a while - she mentioned wanting to make out with me at one point that night (she sometimes makes out with guys when drunk - with her husband's permission and we made out once a few years back), plus she kept pushing me to drink more and got upset when I would not. Plus her husband has very clearly put on weight, whereas I've been lifting for the past 6 months and look good/fit.

The 30ish year old, after I got done dancing/making out was like, "Wow, that's so crazy, how'd you manage that?" and I was just like, "That's a pretty normal evening for me." and then she called me, "One of those asshole guys".

When we get back to the married couple's house after clubbing, the wife jumps on me, and is like, "Why are you so serious tonight???"


So, were the girls just jealous and trying to cockblock me because of that? Or am I reading this incorrectly? What's the best way to deal with jealous girls that you don't intend to fuck? (The wife is cute, but married with kids, and she's getting less cute every year that goes by). I don't really have a ready solution for when I'm getting cockblocked by girls who are attracted to me.

That may happen from time to time if you have enough attraction and social proof, especially from older women since they like to go after what they want. You just need to give her too much validation and just be friendly. Definitely don't escalate or break rapport with her. Just isolate your girl and bring her to another location so you can game her in private. You can say you want to go somewhere quieter to talk.

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You need to tell her to cut it out. Tell her she's making it more difficult to get with this chick and it's not a cool way to act. If she's into you, she will back off.

Don't tell her in a way where you're saying "don't be jealous" tell her in a way that conveys "I know you're trying to help, but it's not. Thanks".

Because for one thing, believe it or not, she actually thinks she's helping on some level. What level? She's convinced herself she's better than these other women. And that you'd be much better off hooking up with her. You just haven't realized it. So she'll "help you" by blowing you out with other girls, so you can be so "lucky" as to get with her.

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I may be ascribing too much logic to a woman, but she's been married for eight years, with two kids, and her husband was there, and a friend of my buddy. It was not gonna happen. Plus I see her maybe once a year.

I'll keep in mind telling them they need to back off and they aren't helping. It seemed like every time I was strongly interacting with a girl, they had to cock it up.