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PostPosted: Mon Aug 11, 2014 5:13 pm 
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Sorry I wasn't clear my last post. I was referring to being drunk while approaching girls in clubs or at social gatherings. I wouldn't be drunk during the day, I can't, I have a pretty demanding day job. I agree with you that I shouldn't start out an interaction with a lie. I'm going to try out your suggestion, but man, its hard. Its like I freeze whenever I purposefully want to start an interaction now that I'm thinking so much about it.
I know it's hard to start an interaction if you are thinking about it, but if you've said hi to tons of people already, then one more is almost a reflex.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 15, 2014 2:12 am 
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Heres your solution to defeating approach anxiety during the day:
You need to understand there will always be a bit of resistance and anxiety because is not something you are use to doing, and even then its still a rush. But he more you do it the more it subsides. Now, my favorite way of going about daytime approaches and overcoming the fear is by small stepping it, first just focus on getting yourself to the venue on a consisrant basis. Then just go and walk around, get a feel for what you are dealing with, look at the girls you wish you could approach and maybe even count how many you could have approached. Now if you feel like approaching do it. But if you feel nerveous and just really cant do it then go home and sleep on it. Let it sink. Then come back the next day when your ready to be a man and beastmode !! Crash and burn like a true champ , go for girls that seem friendly then step it up a notch. Work those social skills, yes you need to practice, your not born with them. Eventually you'll be gettin dates and lays. No one said it was easy, but it can be done and the results are very rewarding. The key here is to consistantly put yourself out there, but do it in a smart way, dont do stupid shit, use your head and make it happen. These hoes are waitin for a real man to just sweep them off their feet, become that man !! ;) Good luck :)

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 Post subject: Re: Aproaching Anxiety
PostPosted: Fri Aug 15, 2014 5:58 am 
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For those battling Approach Anxiety... you have two problems:

1. Externally Validated Value Systems.

You are assuming that the women you are approaching have higher value than you do.

Let go of that, become a high-value guy... understand that women WANT TO BE WITH YOU!

2. Outcome-Dependency

You are attached to the outcome of the interaction, my suggestion for battling this is the following: (in order)

- Approach, ask for directions, exit.
- Approach, ask for directions, ask name, exit.
- Approach, ask for directions, ask name, ask profession, exit.
- Approach, ask for directions, ask name, ask profession, ask zodiac, make assumption on zodiac, verify/disqualify assumption, exit.
- Approach, ask for directions, ask name, ask profession, ask zodiac, make assumption on zodiac, verify/disqualify assumption... (by this point you should have talked to enough girls where you can start introducing openers here)...

Eventually this will lead to...

- Approach, establish entitlement, build rapport, escalate, time-bridge, close.

Good Luck! :)


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