Had My First Date Since Starting Game And My First Rejection...heres me documenting my experiences.

Review Of First Date Since Starting PUA
http://nipua.blogspot.co.uk/2014/08/rev ... g-pua.html
Counting My Blessings
http://nipua.blogspot.co.uk/2014/08/cou ... sings.html
Rejection: Addendum
http://nipua.blogspot.co.uk/2014/08/rej ... endum.html

rejection seems to take you very harshly, you shouldnt feel down in the dumps,remember some girls dont put out on the first date,so wait till like the 4th or fifth but good post on your blog,impressed with your skill to analyse on what went wrong and what went right. why didnt you try and bring her back to your place or at least to a place where you two would be alone for a chance to run some kino and k-close?
anyways bro,your "what i did wrongs" look valid enough to kill your game on this girl,learn for your mistakes and try again

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"Life is a chance,take all the ones you get".

I did try.

We went to a Starbucks first and someone was already sitting on the comfy couch.... I suggested after an hour trying to find one at another coffee place...walked round and THAT was taken too, ha! I felt weird about Kino'ing her when she was sitting across from me so didn't really bother as I thought it be awkward and do more harm than good.

There was definitely pauses and moments of eye-contacts and flirtatious smiles and thats what caught me off guard as I legitimately thought I had made a good impression. I think if the setting was better and more relaxed I could have easily kino'd her a little bit when that was happening and built up more of that connection that she wanted... Maybe even went for the kiss-close. I couldn't really take her back to mine as it was more of a time-constraint on both our parts. I had stuff to do and so did she. It was really a brief date, testing the waters so to speak to make sure we got on first because we had only really talked briefly on PlentyOfFish. I thought if we got on well we would do all this on a proper, second-date where I actually forked out a bit of money.... But she seemed quite adamant that she wasn't interested. Kinda sucks, but oh well -- sh*t happens. I was just very dissapointed, mainly cos I just thought the date went well and sensed we would be going on another one. So when she sent me that text it was just a major blow to me as I had my hopes built up really thinking I had made a good impression.

Overall though, I am just looking on the plus-side as regardless of me not being able to attract her I do think the date went very well. I kept the conversation flowing and thought I presented myself as confident, chatty and had some banter. Whether or not she really meant this is debateable, but she did tell me that I was a cool guy, good banter and attractive looks wise -- but it just didn't click for her. There are a million reasons why this could have went wrong. Maybe I just wasn't really her type or maybe I just didn't escalate enough. I don't think it was a major f*ck up.