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Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved
Completely circumstantial. Some men will expect to be loved for who they are, some will expect to be loved because they have big muscles or a big cock.
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So he finds a woman, who says and shows him that she loves him, but not in the manner he’s had all this time in his head. Her love is based on qualifications and is far more conditional than what he’d been led to believe, or convinced himself, love should be between them. Her love seems duplicitous, ambiguous, and seemingly, too easily lost in comparison to what he’d been taught for so long is how a woman would love him when he found her.
You're coming at this from a very specific point of view. A man can love a woman for what she is but a man can also "love" a woman purely because she has big tits, a tight arse and doesn't talk when he want's peace.
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I've found that women don't always seem to love a man for completely who he is, yet men can love a woman for who she is. A woman seems to love a man for partly who he is but in some part what he can do for her.
Men don't always love a woman for who she is. Yet a woman can love a man for who he is. <I just reversed your statement and it makes complete sense. Men and women are just as bad/good as each other. Bunching women into a collective derogatory collective noun such as "whore" just shows you can't handle the "playing field" that there is between men and women these days.
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This is all part of the fairy tale - the knight in shining armor..the prince...what can he do for her? He can save her, he can sweep her away and give her everything.
Well this has got more to do with how they're raised. This is the same with men, the more fucked up your childhood was the more fucked up you are as an adult. Women/girls look up to their dads for physical protection and expect the same from a male partner. Males/boys look up to their mums for emotional protection and expect the same from a female partner.
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Also why are women competitive - why do they want a man that is sought after. Why not a man that is just great, and brilliant to her, why does he have to be wanted by others?
Yet again this is more to do with how they are raised and I'm not entirely sure of your age but this changes as you get older. At school, when girls/boys are most impressionable being cool/popular is the #1 goal so girls will go after the popular boys to keep themselves "safe." Whilst boys will go for the fit girls to look as cool as possible.
If you're still behaving this way after you finish college/university (UK) then you really need to reevaluate your life and grow up.
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It's all rooted long ago in the process of evolution and mate selection. Women have more of a tendency to be whorish
Don't be so ridiculous. There is no "whore" gene within the chemical composition of our bodies. Women and men are equally as "whorish" as each other. Women however have more of an opportunity to be whorish because they naturally have physical attributes that men desire whilst men don't naturally have rock hard abs and big muscles.
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they can't help it - it's in their DNA.
No it's no, implying something like "being a whore" is in their DNA implies they don't have a choice in the matter. In this regard women are the same as men, we both have a choice to be whorish or not.
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More than us men are that's for sure.
Where in gods name is this research?
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So I feel ya OP, but just accept it. Some women are less whorish than others, so choose well. Either way don't hate them for it, just set your expectations right and you will be happier.
Men and Women are just as whorish as each other mate. It is simply much more popular to yell "whore" at a woman because she'll have an emotional reaction (much easier to market via the media and take the piss out of) whereas if a man gets called a "whore" he sticks his thumbs up and goes "ladsladsladslads" and gains popularity.
There is no DNA segment that makes anyone act more whorish.
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