Yesterday, I went on a mission to help my confidence talking to girls by going out in the field for some day-game at random places. It worked pretty well, I went with the intent of just talking to them back and forth and making them laugh if I could. But as I was approaching, I felt I could've created attraction somehow with some of the girls I approached, like applying Kino right from the very start. I'm just not very sure how to go about this, and what to do if the girl rejects the Kino at first but is still willing to talk.

Any tips on this?

Try a handshake and not letting go. Very light pressure, just enough to show you are holding it and she'll have to take her hand back herself. Good eye contact, a smile and a playful vibe.

You can also do taps on the arms and shoulder or stomach as you tease or in response to teasing. Repeating how exited you are to talk to them and holding your hand out for another handshake. If lets you keep her hand and is smiling and happy, step in closer and touch your shoulder to hers and pat her on the shoulder blade with your free hand. Then step back.... And on and on...

Would something like lightly holding her hand after a handshake work with a direct approach?("Hi! I think your really cute" *holds out hand*)?

Okay, when I go out in the field again I'd have to try getting used to doing some of that...when you say "if lets me keep her hand" do you mean the 1st or 2nd time I attempt the "hold handshake"? I ask since if the first, I'd be doing shoulder blade to shoulder blade very quickly after meeting her

Do the handshake when you exchange names. You have to figure out the escilation infield. If she crosses her ankles, fucks wither hair, giggles and her is limp like a noodle you can easily step forward.

Being flirty/touchy/feely is a way of being. Touch her on the arm, the back, or softly move her hair away from her eyes etc. It's got to feel natural and normal for you - if it feels weird for you to do it, the girl will be sketched out. The best way is to not think about it but to let it happen within the context of your conversation. Also don't go into every set thinking "i have to go kino in this set." Let things unfold naturally.

Bolded would mean first handshake is limp? Just want some clarification if that's what you mean.

That's some good advice oceanx..."dont" think about it...but "let it" happen

Dude, if a girl gives you a noodle arm at any point and just holds your hand, relax. You're good.

side hugs work great - i use them to emphasis points or to reward

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If you want to initiate KINO with women from the start, you need an EXCUSE that is cool enough
for both of you to touch each other.

For example, if you're at the very start of the conversation, and she does something that you
approve, you can say, "Aaallriighhtt, gimme a High five" and you give
her a high five.

If as you're keep talking she again does something that you approve, you can give her a hug by
saying "Ooooo now that's what I'm talking about..." and you give her a gentle hug.

But the main thing about KINO right from the start is that you have to feel comfortable with it.

If you feel FREAKED OUT and awkward and anxious about starting a conversation with her... it's
not going to work, or it's going to be very weird for both of you.

The more awkward you feel - the more awkward she'll feel. So relax. Make it OK in your head
first and she'll be OK with it too.

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Some simple move like inspecting her jewelry or hold hand while you introduce yourself will do the kino during approach.

If you want more advanced kino stuffs, check out my post on "How to touch a girl to prime her for sex"

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so first of all if you do any kino start light- as in the three fingers on the back of your hand and a light touch just to stop them or to slow them down if they are walking away, but remember dont approach from behind, pass them up first

you dont NEED kino in the approach but figure out what works best for you

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The best way is to not think about it but to let it happen within the context of your conversation.

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In a daygame scenario is not so much about kino. In nightgame you kino because you are escalating towards same nightpull so therefore is makes scence to manhandle her, but during the day you want to have a casual chat with sum fun flirting and the kino should come naturally. Dont just kino for no reason, everything you do should have a purpose. But during the day id typically just have a fun light chat, with a man to woman frame, strong flirty eye contact and show genuine interest. If she has time for an insta date and the logistics seem right then you can amp up the flirting and kino just like in nightgame - but this time you have a reason, you have the possibility for a pull. But otherwise keep it cool get to know her and get her number for a solid date. And if you feel like you want to kino do it, there is never a right time, kino is a form of expression, express yourself however you want, its natural, shouldnt feel forced. Anyway play with does ideas and keep approaching ! Good luck !

Sidenote: the stronger the connection with the girl and the more into you she seems, the easier it will be to express yourself physically and more sexually. Dont beat yourself up because you didnt spin, handshake, hug, or whatever dumb pua kino moves right off open. Remember your talking to a stranger so get a feel for her vibe and slowly but surely you can escalate, make a connection and ultimately close. It all has a smooth flow to it. Keep practicing till you get it right.

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