hey guys,

I've had my eye on gaming this girl here at school ever since I saw her early last semester. I've just never had the courage before to approach her and just do my thing, but after coming back from winter break and playing around with a bunch a girls from back home I know this will not be a problem gaming her now.

Problem is, I've been back for over a month now, and I haven't even seen her around. Usually I would see her once every week or so because she lives in the neighboring dorm, but since I've been back after break... nothing...


I don't know anything about this girl, I've never talked to her, and I don't even know her name... I think it would be too easy to look her name up on facebook, and besides that's definately creepy...


What would you guys do in this situation?

who knows man, she might've packed her shit and gone home! if thats the case then dont get hung up i guess would be the best advice...

theres nothing creepy about looking her up on facebook. a lot of people use facebook to keep an eye on girls theyre into and ex-girlfriends. but i guess shes gonna be hard to look up without a name.

i dunno man, ask your neighbours about her. but let this be a lesson to never stall the game!

isn't that funny..

when you aren't looking for her you see her everywhere, and when you are you can never find her..


i'd just wait it out and see if you see her sometime soon.

dont put your game on hold but if she re-appears dont be afraid to approach and start the game, but DO NOT get hung up waiting for her to show up

maybe she has new classes for the semester and has a different schedule? if u really want to try to find her without facebook maybe try changing up your route to classes and such? maybe youll see her one day. just an idea

Word of mouth is a quick way to find somebody talk to a friend of hers and neg her through a friend it will make her want to seek you out to unvalidate the neg.
for example

YOU: Hey sarah (<----the girls friend) did HB move or something? I miss seeing her passing by in the hallways. I mean she's so clumsy I almost want a bucket of popcorn while she's around (<---made up on the spot you probably shouldn't use that) but you get the idea

Her friend: hey HB HG is looking for you he said you walk funny because one leg is shorter than the other (<----yet again you probably shouldnt use that one) but I so this so you get an idea of how the chain reaction occurs.

Getting a woman to seek you out is tricky but negging her through a friend is a easier way to make it happen.

Haha, I don't even know her name much less her friends' name or her friends at all.

I don't plan on getting hung up on this girl. I'm multitasking my women right now haha, there's three alone in my photography class that are attached at the hip to me basically. So stalling my game isn't happening, I just want this girl haha, she would be the hottest of the bunch I've got right now... serious social proof

The only thing I know about her is that she is in the Phi Beta Pi sorority here because I always saw her chuggin that huge bag/purse thing with the greek letters on it... oh well.. here's hoping we'll cross paths sometime (soon)

Approach and open on one of her friends, or somebody from her sorority and instead of actually closing, ask about HB. The key here is to listen and tried to remember everything her friend tells you.

I know nothing about this chick, I don't have a problem opening and carrying on a convo with another girl from the same sorority, but how am I supposed to ask about her friend if I don't know her?

I guess for now I'm just going to game on a pi phi, and hope it escalates into becoming friends or something in order to get invited to parties etc to meet the real hb... just use her as a pivot I guess.

Regardless as to you knowing this girl or not you start gaming on her entire house and you will get noticed furthermore you open and number close a few of em in the house and you are BOUND to get invited to a house party or two just expose yourself more to the areas where the girl would be at

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