Hey guys,

Need your help.

Been on two dates now via tind. Both have appeared to be a success - yet getting completely and utter blanked when organising a day 2. Not quite sure what is happening.
-First date. Shoot the shit. Hear her life story. Throw some of mine in too.
-bounce to nearby live music gig, central london, k close
-bounce to one final bar, some dhv stories and leave.
-she goes home same way as me. Try for same night lay. She says no. I take it like it's no big deal, coz it ain't. But least she knows things are going Down at some point.
-talk about meeting up for day 2. Yes from both parties.
- I get completely blanked afterwards.

Second date, pretty much the same. Thought date 1 might be buyers remorse. So tone down the kino. Only went for the k close on day 1 this time. I bounced between a few bars, we left, before we did I k close. She says she has had fun. Let's do it again.
Blanked again.

Wtf...

I read your post several times and I can't tell what your question is..

Your title says "flake" ... yet neither girl flaked on you. It sounds like your question is about day 2 (dates).

Well what's your goal??? If you want to fuck the girl then get some condoms, alcohol, and set up an environment for seduction (car, apartment, her house, whereverthefuckyouwant)! Make sure you kiss these girls first and touch them all over, before even trying to stick your thing inside them.

If you want to go on dinner dates then pick a restaurant! If you need more help, why don't you specify the area so I can go to google and type in "what to do in XYZ" and I'll get back to you.

What the fuck does "blanked" mean?

Awful post, man. I have no clue what you're asking.

She went out with you. How did she flake on you?

Blanked = ignored.

I'm going to say that she only agreed to see you again, because thats the easiest thing to do. It's like when you ask a girl for her number... some girls will give you the number, and just ignore you until you fade away, rather than flat out reject you to your face. Why? Cause men have trained them to do so.

Every woman, at one point or another, has had to deal with a guy who can't take rejection and won't take no for an answer. Imagine how intimidating this is? Lets say that conversation goes this way:

Him: bla bla bla... when do you want go out again?
Her: I don't really think we should
Him: Why?
Her: You're just not really my type
Him: So why did you go out with me? Were you purposely playing me? Trying to waste my time? Are you saying I'm not good looking enough for you? You're a bitch. Fuck you...

^ Slightly over the top, but you get the idea.

Because of this, women have basically trained themselves to reject us the easy way, rather than just come out with it and hurt our feelings. Women don't like to tell us what we don't want to hear (which is why you never ask a woman for advice about another woman)

Your biggest problem is more than likely something that you're doing on the first date, to turn her off. Maybe you're being too eager? Maybe you're just not taking women on cool dates? Something is stopping them from wanting a second date.

Good first date ideas: http://ipickupwomen.com/good-first-date-ideas/

Get her to agree to a date: http://ipickupwomen.com/get-her-to-agree-to-a-date/

Sorry to be all self-promoting, but I've had good feedback on those articles so maybe they'll help out.

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