I'd just call, you're making it out to be a big deal.

Hey man,

Used to have te same issue. Don't overthink things. If you want to call, call immediately after she responds to a text, but make sure your call has a purpose. Girls have such a hectic life that trying to set up a phone call in advance is doomed to fail. Also, some girls don't like calls. So, you can get shot down for lots of reasons. Call and if she doesn't pick up,
Stick to text.

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Well the dilemma is why did she lose attraction for me and not get back to me?
I mean we got on seriously well and today she couldn't take 5 mins out just to have a text convo with me.
My friend suggested, she could hv called me cause she was bored and she's busy with other guys or something.
IMO I should have struck while the iron was hot and called earlier. I basically want to understand when to txt a girl after you been on a date with her to chat again. What's the best routine and why did this happen?

So I called tonight at 9 and it went to VM "Yo, *her name* it's Pink, give me a call back. If this # goes to Vm try calling my other #. Ok, take it easy."

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We all get into this point some time. It's calibration. You can only master this with more experience. Text or call too early, you're done with a certain type of girl. Call or text too late, you're done with another type of girl. There are no just about right timing.

It all boils down to the type of girl you're dating.

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So she called me once I left a msg, she got back to me and called at 11.

Basically we joked around I said there's lots of great things going on in my life, I'm headed to San Frab to lecture. She said: on what? Tell me. I said, stripping lessons, I'm employing girls all over the world. Then we made up a stripper nickname for her and she told me about stuff in her office. At one point I said, I hate you. She said why? I said I just do. Then I went into Mysterious high jacked my brain thing but I held back a bit to calibrate. I said I was at a store and I seem a drink and thought I'd get you one but didn't know what to get and I just hate you. You keep popping up and it's distracting, your very annoying lol She was like "we'll I'm sorry you hate me (or something) then she jokingly said she's leaving. I'm like leave me stripper! Then I jokingly made fun of her speech and teased her. And was slightly sexual. Cause she asked me what were the requirements to join my stripping classes, I said knee pads lol.

Overall she laughed a lot in the convo I was funny but I hope I didn't make her think I was thinking of her too much and said something weird. Then I said what are you doing tomorrow and she said Idk I only know I have practice. I said you need to get organized gurl. I'll be in town tomorrow but I may have time at 5. I'll meet you at the museum and she said ok. I said we'll both let each other know at 11-12pm tomorrow. Then I joked that she's crazy and that idk if I'll be able to out up with her and she said you'll find out tomorrow (which I think is a good sign). Then I just let her know again ill txt her at that time.

I'm a bit hard on myself so it's hard to decide. How do you think I did?

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Again, always assume attraction. Could be 101 reasons she hasn't responded yet (her dog died, she turned lesbo, she's not interested, she got back w an old flame, she's out on other dates on and on and on). Reload, hit her up after a bit as if nothing happened, in mean time game on gamer.

She called me back^ lol

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Great job Pink. No. Excellent job. You're more assertive now and masculine. Keep it up. Fuck her good.

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