I met this girl from Okc we got along great, made out and we had a connected.
She told me she's been used in the past for sex and she didn't want to rush I immediately took the control back and said lets not rush things and that I like her for stuff more beyond her body.

So I tell her to txt me when she gets home, she remembers and she does.
I tell her I'll call her sometime this week and we'll set up another date.

I opened a bit too sexual and she didn't respond.
http://i.imgur.com/EPQUQUF.png

Initially I waited 3 days to txt her cause I was busy.
Since yesterday she hasn't replied, how do I re-open/what should I sau and is 1 day enough time to txt again

_________________
"Be the flame, not the moth." - Casanova

My journal confessions-of-a-seducer-journey-to-gre ... 84193.html Online/Offline, Texting & Reports.

Reply with - hey u, hope you well. Watched a movie the other day that reminder me of you. HAHA, laughed my ass off, literally, it was on the floor..don't worry, I've re-attached it..you can come feel if you want..cheers..

Dude I appreciate your response but I don't think it will work. I mean of it can be used but it's out of my style.

_________________
"Be the flame, not the moth." - Casanova

My journal confessions-of-a-seducer-journey-to-gre ... 84193.html Online/Offline, Texting & Reports.

I went with this, "Agent *her name*, the craziest thing just reminded me of you... "

So I basically went back to a joke we had about her being a secret agent. Still no reply yet?

_________________
"Be the flame, not the moth." - Casanova

My journal confessions-of-a-seducer-journey-to-gre ... 84193.html Online/Offline, Texting & Reports.

Shit man I wish I saw this thread sooner. 1st instead of texting I would have called, but when a girl doesn't reply this is what I do.

Hey---- this relationship is not working for me..... I want a divorce!!! I'll have my lawyer send you the papers I'll be taking the house cars and money you can keep our bratty kids and stupid cat.
Have a nice day

That's my go to if I'm having a convo with a girl and she stops replying, but I only use that if there I've set the right frame and there's a need to be proactive. Other than that I just wait for her.

If you find yourself in this situation again where she didn't reply and you wanna give it one last try ALWAYS call texts are too easy to ignore. Infact keep texting to an absolute minimum women having a strong phone convo boosts attraction BIG TIME!!

Hope that helps good luck.

there's nothing wrong with texting... you don't really HAVE to call her.

Now the text you sent her raised a couple questions....

1. do you know her well enough to be calling her "babe"?

2. Is there a chance she looked at the text like "WTF does that even mean?"


I would text her back with some of these openers... whatever feels congruent with your personality.

▪ Just had a staring contest with a dog and I lost….
▪ I was just wondering when my food was going to be done, I’m getting a little hungry and I suggest you finish cooking soon if you want to sleep inside tonight.
▪ Do you speak text?
▪ How do you feel about ______? (insert whatever)
▪ On a scale of one to ten, how good of a kisser are you? (remember actions speaks louder than words)
▪ Texting you makes my thumbs happy
▪ My plan is to travel the world in a panda suit.
▪ Where Am I *picture attached*


I wouldn't give up until at least the 4th time... sometimes it has nothing to do with you and she's either busy or something else is going on.

_________________
VIDEO SERIES Shows You How To Seduce Women In Less Than 3 Minutes Without Having To Sell Your Soul
http://www.manmindsetcoaching.com <-- Click Here

Girls are moody. You have to exploit those mood swings when texting.

Girls eyes light up when they see a cute puppy or kitten. That's conditioning, so you need to anchor your text on that feel good emotion to trigger a response.

You can reword this to fit your style. As long as your previous texting habits are short, you can infuse long messages once and so often.

"I saw a Persian kitten/Pomeranian pup and she looks like you. Please text back so I know that a witch didn't cast a spell on you and turned you into a cute kitten/puppy."

I got that from NikAFC a long time ago and I've been using it successfully ever since.

_________________
Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Guys those are some awesome replies. Massively helpful!
So here's what happened, she txt'ed me that night with "I called! Going straight to VM " She called but I couldn't pick up cause I was on the phone with someone else. So I call her back 40 mins later (when I'm done) she doesn't pick up (I didn't leave a VM). I Txt her with "Call my other # XXXXXX"

No response. I stood up waiting for the call but nothing. It's been like a day since it happened (weds).
It's basically Friday and when we first met last week we got along great and she even took a pic of us together after we made out. I got all positive responses. We made plans for Sat but she didn't call me back and if I call her again on Fri it looks like I'm too needy. So you see my dilemma? Running out of time yet I can't contact her (at least I think so).

P.S. And no I wouldn't say I was on the level yet to call her Babe. My pua friend recommended me that but obviously it was too strong and she responded when I was less sexual and more playful.

_________________
"Be the flame, not the moth." - Casanova

My journal confessions-of-a-seducer-journey-to-gre ... 84193.html Online/Offline, Texting & Reports.

Your text looks lame as hell, probably why she hasn't responded also its a statement wtf are you expecting

I just made a mistake. My txt game is typically very good but my first txt was way too direct and my phone has been messing up lately. I'll get calls from people and it won't alert me of them or ring. Having said that, what's the best way to deal with the situation at hand.

_________________
"Be the flame, not the moth." - Casanova

My journal confessions-of-a-seducer-journey-to-gre ... 84193.html Online/Offline, Texting & Reports.

Ok here is my opinion.

First of all dude I know a bit about you and your issues and I'd like to say that you are improving a lot by getting physical on a date so well done for that.

Now when you tell her that you will call her and you'll set up another day why do you not call her ? Why do you text instead ?

I would have not texted her at all but called her on a weekday evening to set up a date.

Also if you make out on a date then you don't need to wait a week to set up a date. you could have called her say Tuesday to see what her weeks look like and set up a weekday meeting in a bar with a few drinks in mind and going back to her place or yours.

When she says I don't want to rush that's fair enough. However when you make out and start touching her everywhere and she doesn't stop you (I normally try to touch her boobs/pussy at least 5 times before I back off) then it doesn't mean shit.

For now keep you texts and calls as simple as possible and only for logistics. Improve your face to face interaction.

I couldn't agree more AFC.
And we wasn't able to meet up sooner because we both have busy schedules.
I deff should have called her early on, I wasn't able to because I was really busy with work. But I know what you said was the right move.

So it's Fri and we have plans for Sat and she still hasn't gotten back to me.
My last txt convo with her was Weds. What's my move?

_________________
"Be the flame, not the moth." - Casanova

My journal confessions-of-a-seducer-journey-to-gre ... 84193.html Online/Offline, Texting & Reports.

Ok guys! She just txt'ed me back!

"I had an exam yesterday!! I forgot to call back cause I was sleep deprived and stressed out"
I was thinking of saying, "No worries, I'll call you sometime today. When's a good time?"

I'd prefer to talk on the phone a bit and set up the date for tomorrow.
But that's just me. How would you guys do it?

_________________
"Be the flame, not the moth." - Casanova

My journal confessions-of-a-seducer-journey-to-gre ... 84193.html Online/Offline, Texting & Reports.

That's great dude

Here's what happen so far
http://i.imgur.com/qWKGKJj.png

It's now 5:30. What should I do now? Call her or wait, etc.

_________________
"Be the flame, not the moth." - Casanova

My journal confessions-of-a-seducer-journey-to-gre ... 84193.html Online/Offline, Texting & Reports.