Are you looking at the opposite sex differently?



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 11:22 am 
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Since my personal discovery of the community I see myself looking at females differently then before. Before I found the community I used to look at girls like

"Shes hott, I wanna f*** her!"

now with more knowledge of the community its more like

"Shes an 8, what will I do to get her wanting more?"

I guess what I am saying is its not what I want from them now, I am more interested in the process it takes then the end objective itself. I am more stimulated by the art of PUA and the female interaction then dare I say it? The actual sex??

I am a novice in the field but not to human interactions...

What do some of the more experienced PUAs think? Did you see your outlook change at some point when learning all the much needed and useful information?


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 1:53 pm 
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I dont think like any of the examples above and it hasn't really changed the way i think or feel when i see a girl im attracted to. Except that now i know its very possible i can get a date with them and make them my GF. So i suppose it has really. When i see a HB i think 'she's fine' or 'fit' or 'gorgeous', i dont think 'man i would like to bang her ragid'.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:28 pm 
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the game can alter your view on women, your job is not to let it. If you let the game take over your life it can be bad...as The Game shows if youve read that book. Find a healthy balance and keep away from that thinkin. At one point I almost dropped all my MLTR's for a while bcause girls were...shockingly....boring to me now. I could get them too easily...and thats where the game messes with us. Jus keep a level hea and use PU...but dont let it take over


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 7:28 pm 
No, I still think "I'd fuck her" when I see an attractive girl, lol. But now, I know I have choices. I can have whatever girl I want to have. So, if I start talking to a girl, flirting with her, etc., she's got to work to keep my attention now, instead of the other way around.

Just because a girl has a body that I would fuck doesn't mean she has a mind that will keep me interested. And if she doesn't have that mind, it ain't going far.

So, the point is, you have options. You don't need any one girl. So, suddenly, none of them are on pedestools.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 7:35 pm 
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I share a similar outlook with L.A. When I see a woman or a group of women I see them as options rather than "which one would be interested in me?" Before, I wouldn't give myself enough credit. So I'd try to narrow them down to the one that has the lowest standards. Now I narrow them down to the one that has the biggest chance of earning my attention.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 8:03 pm 
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i can relate to the OP,
i used to be really objective and be like damn shes fine, i doubt i could get that but it would be nice.
and now i think
haha little does she know that i know what to do to get her begging for attention.

i did it today in class there was this hb7, and she looks nice but i was behind her negging her and i just looked at all the possibilities that i could neg her on and damn i was shocked because before i would never think of saying these things.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 8:30 pm 
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I still think the same as "I'd like to fuck her" if I see an attractive girl but the only thing that has changed is my confidence. I have no problem talking to girls and making conversation, before a beautiful girl would intimidate me and now beauty doesn't faze me, and I can say that honestly.

I've never made girls the priority of my life and probably never will, but being able to have fun and consistently get dates with beautiful women only drives me more to do the other things in life I want to accomplish because it raises my confidence in myself.

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