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PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2014 11:51 pm 
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So I have been hanging out with this girl pretty strong the past month she stays over at least once a weekend and we hookup (she says she hasen't been with many guys). But last weekend we hungout friday downtown and her friends douchbag boyfriend kept basically interrogating me. Then she later told me he said I wasn't the right guy for her i think deep down he likes her so does she.

Anyway my buddy was way to drunk and on the way home and got into an argument with my girl which some of his points were valid and i sided with him on a few he also said some a lot of mean stuff to her. but in the end he made her cry i got him out of the car. she still slept over but i felt too guilty to try to close.

Things were ok saturday she stayed over till 2:00 but she was feeling hungover she said she was going to come out that night but hinted that she was sick i think she wanted me to pick her up or go to her house and hangout, i ended up going out with my buddys. well the next day she barely responded and if she did they were 1 word texts. well its been 2 days now and i haven't heard from her. idk what to do i really like her and want to fix this. please help..


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 12:17 am 
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Bro, Why would a girl keep you if you let someone[or friend] talk about or bring her down? Should have told him to shut the fuck up and stood up for her. You probably broke her trust. CALL HER if you want her back tell her you messed up and say your peace. If she doesn't take you back their are plenty of women out there.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 12:30 pm 
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Drama at its finest.

I usually avoid such situations and I go for girls who are more down to earth.

Bad move siding with your friend and then siding with her, shows how you are affected by other people's opinions. No need for all that shit. If it's one thing I have to say to help you it would be: just make your own decisions in life and stick to them instead of being directed by people.

If I was in your place, I'd just go look for more interesting and fun women. But that's just me.


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Drama at its finest.

I usually avoid such situations and I go for girls who are more down to earth.

Bad move siding with your friend and then siding with her, shows how you are affected by other people's opinions. No need for all that shit. If it's one thing I have to say to help you it would be: just make your own decisions in life and stick to them instead of being directed by people.

If I was in your place, I'd just go look for more interesting and fun women. But that's just me.
This.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 7:22 pm 
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This is easy and so common man.

This will fix itself if you just DON'T CONTACT her again.

She'll reach back out to you.

You let your guilt transfer over to her and as a result she felt she had a reason to be mad at you; when truth be told, she didn't have one. Because if she was that upset she wouldn't of slept over. But with your energy you were baiting her to be upset with you.

You did your part.

Now pull back and she will come to you.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 11:26 pm 
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First, you should have stopped the argument in the first place. Dont let your friends talk to your girl like shes a POS. You need to be the high value male and keep your friends in check. Women love alphas.

Second, you're coming off try-hard by constantly texting her bc you're worried if she still wants you. Give her some space and if she comes back then good, but if not just suck it up and move on.


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