I am getting back into the game after a few years off so I am rusty.

I been approaching single girls at networking events with great success and number closing. Other guys approach them, hit on them, and are AFCs and the girls shut them down to their face or right after they walk away.
I build comfort and attraction instantly and usually bounce the girl to a different place down the street within about 30 mins of talking to them for an insta date. The ages of these girls are older than me 38-41.

Each time they say to me they can be friends with me and thats all they want is just friends.Then they ask me in a playful question if I would date them or not like you would not date me would you im to old? I then usually neg them by saying ya I usually dont date girls with kids or I date younger girls than me, Or you remind me of a younger relative of mine your so cute. This usually works by showing I am not too interested or eager.

I texted one from this weekend yesterday and she said all she wants is friends again in txt after a few general playful txts.

This has happened to me a few times in a row now the past few weeks with different girls- them saying they just looking to be friends.

1. They are all open and voluntarily give me their number but Why are the girls (repeatly) telling me they just want to be friends (quickly after I contact them) ?

She views guys as threats?
She does not want to seem easy to get to know?
She wants to be chased?
She likes to test
???

2. What should my strategy be on the next date to escelate her and continue bulding attraction ?

You're getting friend zoned, bud. Hit harder and faster. They should know full well that friends isn't what you have on offer long before you get a number... like .25 seconds after the open.

I recently got friend zoned by a girl 24 hours after I had sex with her on the second floor dinning area of a deli. Her reasoning was that " I moved too fast. She can't trust me sexually if I'm willing to sleep with a girl so soon " - the nerve of her? lol

But all in all, I know why she friend zoned me. I had fallen in love with the girl. She was too beautiful. I slept with her and became needy for her. The sex, the location and the quality of women it happened with combined turned me into someone that would do anything to have sex with her again.

I was desperate for HER. I got caught up. Its been a while since something like that has happened to me; and it definitely put me in touch with reality.

But I think your issue is that you aren't coming across sexual enough; you're behaving like their friend so they are treating you like their friend.

How much physical contact did you have with these women before getting their numbers?

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Did KINO and they recognized it so escalated as far as I could until I felt there was risk.

Maybe your kino is awkward and they just felt you were to gropey?

Two words for you: Sexual Threat

You're lacking sexual intent dude. All I see is you making girls laugh/giggle/have a good time whatever. There's no risk of getting fucked in them being around you..

So they shove you into the "friend zone."

Well technically, you put yourself there.

Agreed with the posts above. She should know IMMEDIATELY through your body language/voice tone/eye contact/etc. that if she is ever alone with you it could go down.