I went to my cousins party. It was at HER fiancées house and he had a sister. We kinda hit it off before the party started. Had a few drinks . Had some personally with her. I threw up in front of her. And I played off like it wasn't a big deal. After I chilled alon for a bit I noticed she went into her room. I went in and literally ask her if she wanted to fuck. Exact words. She said no and she said she was uncomfortable being her room after that. I left her room slowly after telling her basicly it wasn't a big thing.

I set the frame that we were only ever going to be friends from the beginning .

Obviously throwing up was a big mistake but what I really want to know was there anything I could have done differently .

I'm texting you this while still at the house lol. How should I approach her today when I leave. Do you think she wasn't down cuz of the situation? (A lot if people there, her brother there and everything like that) could I have a second chance in a different setting)

What do I have to lose right?

I'll give it you, you had the courage to ask her if she wanted to fuck.

Guess you'll figure it out sooner or later.

Throwing up probably disgusted her, and obviously, I hope you weren't drunk because that kind of shit turns girls off more than you think it could.

Just act casual like nothing happened and try to isolate next time.

PS: Only drink to the point you get that happy feeling next time. Don't go too tipsy/drunk.

Honest to god I never expected it . I've drank a lot more liq then what I have and never have thrown up. Next time I'll keep it a little under control. I hate drinking the way I did tonight tho, it felt to forced rather then natural. That was probably my down fall.

Kinda too strong for a family thing. And the puke probably didn't help.

Honestly I never wanted to do anything with her from the beginning. But she kept bringing up her ex and blah blah blah so I was like you know what let me just see if she wants to fuck so she can move on. Plus I was retarded drunk. So it seemed like a good idea. Probably for the best. I'm actually really worried about her talking about what happened to my cuz or her brother. Might make things a little tense . Maybe they already knew?

seems really embarrassing but you could easily brush it off like saying "man that was a fun night" and laugh at when you puked?

Im guessing they would know by now,because everyone would talk about the crazy stuff that happened the night before like you puking but not so much you "asking her to fuck"

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yeah, it doesnt faze me anymore. whats done is done if they know they know. as for laughing about puking and all that jazz thats what i did. i joked about it and that was that.

it was a fun night and for the people i was with (my cousin and her boyfriend) apparently i did some other crazy things like trying to start a fight with someone. i remember the occurrence but at the time i was joking.(we were all talking about fighting and i got amped) i guess he took me seriously? anyway the whole night was a cool experience for me and even though i was drunk i still did something i dont think i would have ever tried to do before coming on these forums.

she seemed like the type of girl that doesnt get much attention from guys. when she woke up that morning i heard her say "A guy hit on me" in a surprising and happy tone. shes also a heavy girl, and was talking about trying to lose wait and really excited to.

im not saying i was the cause of it but its kinda cool if i helped her in some sort of way. im not going to think to much about it.

well thats my story guys. if you have anything else to add i keep an eye on this thread. and Even if i didnt get laid it was still a great learning experience so thank you guys who have helped me get this far.

I would guess that you were the cause of her saying she wanted to lose weight.

Even though it wasn't the least forward close ever ("wanna fuck?"), it would be nice for all guys who believe they are INCONVENIENCING a girl by approaching them to read what you wrote. By paying attention to a girl you are bringing light into their lives.