I FLAKED ON HER BY MISTAKE



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 1:47 pm 
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This girl and I have known each other for about a month. Was just starting dating. I've been on 2 dates with her, and kiss closed several times. Long story short. I setup a date 3 (Saturday), which she has planned to take me to. She was very flirtatious on the phone and was giving good signs. The ball was in her court and I told her to text me the time/location and I would meet her there. Once Saturday rolls around, she sent me a text that I never received on my phone in the afternoon. "Are we still on for today"? I fucked up, the text got sent to my iPad and not my phone. I was waiting for her text all day and didnt feel the need to reconfirm as the ball was in her court. Once I saw the text later that night. I called her immediately and apologized, she seemed a little upset, but she gave me a few days when she would be available. She also called me "mister" and "boo" during the phone call.

Anyway now the ball is in my court, I'm not sure how she feels about how I flaked her by accident. This could have hurt me or helped me but from the conversation I really doubt it hurt me that bad. However I think she thinks I'm not as interested as much. I want to setup again and make it up to her. Was thinking of texting her this " Hey hope you're having a great day love. Lmk what day you are free after work, I really want to see u". The purpose is to validate her a bit just in case interest was lost and to setup again..

What do you think I should do?
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 8:21 pm 
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Your plan looks good boss. You're in a good spot. Never a bad thing to be a little hard to get / flake from time to time.


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 9:24 pm 
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Well I texted her with that opening this morning. She still hasn't replied...
Still not worried but not sure what to think, I think its best to give her space and she will reply on her own time.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 21, 2014 4:05 pm 
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Bro.. why are you freaking out?

None of this is a big deal.. And don't text her that needy/desperate sounding text message.


Just keep it simple; nothing really happen, you made an honest mistake. So the fuck what? Is it over because you honestly missed her message? lol

Text her: " Hey, when is the next day you're free ? " ...... " Alright.. lets go here. I'll be free after 8 " or whatever. But just stop acting like you did something wrong.

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