Light and playful. She can get to know the real you over time, but putting out all your baggage at once will scare ALL of them away.

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Okay, but doesn't every girl want to bang guys too? I thought that PUAs and dating coaches say that women want sex just as much as men do.

You say that I should practice sarging at bars and nightclubs, but would that work someone like me who doesn't have very little to no friends to available to back up my "high value"?

Make friends

Invest in your self

Girls want to bang, but want to bang guys with more value

This is going to take a long time for you. It's like running a business, you're gonna struggle at the start but get the dip and the rewards will be there

Right now your pics convey that you have no friend, poor and love puddles too much. I'm Not surprised you are not getting results

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I suppose that I"ll put up some more pics of me with some old friends and/or acquaintances of mine, but I already have put up a couple of pics of me with me friends.

With regard to looking poor, I don't know where u saw any part me of looking "poor", but where I live is in a nice upper-middle class neighborhood and I live only a block away from rich people's mansions.

Also, I have already tried joining some hobbies before like my martial arts classes, my gym, a yoga class, clubs at my school to make friends, toastmasters, etc. and while I have able to get along well with others, I still haven't been able to make any solid friends who I can hangout with on a regular basis. So I am not sure or don't really know what to do to get people to hangout with me?

Just letting you know I'm 22 never had a real life girl friend, don't have friends willing to hang out with me and I'm in the same position and only ever had one response. I got her number and then screwed up by being too needy and that led me to become a fan of Corey, though his approach doesn't seem to work for me on-line.
Where abouts are you from?

I am in LA. You?

Oh right I'm from England. I got one a response today, guess it's a matter of persistence and trying different approaches and websites

me personally I think you should practice at bars and nightclubs.. It's better that you don't have any friends because now you can get out there and act crazy without anyone judging you. Just talk up the bouncers, bartenders, random people whoever. Girls want to bang guys too(if they don't have kids they will want to bang more often). However, most hot girls already have a "friend" in their contact list that they can bang if the guy picks up their subtle hints. Don't think these girls are out here practicing abstinence because they aren't. You have to be special or have perfect timing to fuck.

Just an update: picked up a nasty case of one-itis off okCupid and deleted my account. Girl is hot and fun in bed.

So as of recently, I have been doing online dating on both okcupid and Jdate. On Okcupid, I initial messaged 53 girls, and out of all of them, 9 of them had responded back. There have been 2 who have I responded back to a few days ago and afterwards have gotten 2nd responses from. However, out of those 8 girls, there have been 3 of them who I responded back a few days ago but have not responded back to me again since then. Why did those 3 girls not respond again?

On Jdate, I initialed 10 girls and 3 of them responded. I even got initial messages from 5 different girls. One of the girls who messaged me first said "You look and sound adorable. I'd love to learn more." So, a couple days later I read on her profile that she is an engineering major and afterwards sent her a message to her saying "Hey, how's it going? You must be a very ambitious person who is very talented in the math and sciences." However, 4 days have passed since I sent her that message and I have gotten no response from her. Why do u guys think she hasn't responded? This kind of situation so far has only happened once on Jdate.

Dates would be much better than responses.

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I just edited my last post. Sry for bumping this thread.

Sry for bumping this thread again, but would anyone know what I should do if some of the girls haven't given me a 2nd response within a few days after I responded to their first message?

Post up the recent transcripts.

Have you been going out and approaching girls in real life too though?

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This list consists of the girls that I messaged on Okcupid

Here is the first one

Sent on Oct 20 Me: Hey! How's it going?

Sent from the OkCupid app Her: Oct 20 It's going! How about you?

Sent on Oct 22 Me: Yeah, the exact same. Hey, do you like when guys use smilies?

Sent on Oct 25 Me: So, what made you want to go into pre-med?

No response so far.




Second one

Oct 20 Me: Hey! How's it going?

Oct 20 Her: Good thanks! Just relaxing before dinner

Oct 22 Me: Hey, do you like when guys use smilies?

No response so far.

Third girl

Oct 20 Me: Hey! How's it going?

Oct 20 Her: Hi! I'm ok, pretty tired. Was in SF this past weekend just to visit friends. Had to wake up at 4AM to catch my 6AM flight back home. How are you?

Oct 22 Man, that's sucks that you had wake up that early and catch a 6 AM! That's gotta to feel as crappy as a red-eye flight would be! I am doing well. I just studied, went to work, and exercised over the weekend. Hey, do you like when guys use smilies?

Oct 24 Hey, how's your weekend been? So what made you want to become an engineer?

No response so far



Fourth girl

Oct 21 Me: Hey! How's it going?

Oct 21 Her: Hello, it's going well. Just on my lunch at work. How about you?

Oct 22 Me: Yeah, the exact same. Hey, do you like when guys use smilies?

Oct 22 Her: Haha what an odd question. Hmm.. Certain smiles are good. I love emojis but like the whole xD and
and ;P are stupid. Like the overly excited lol

Oct 24 Me: Yeah, I am actually not much of a fan of emoticons in generally. In fact, I think ones like the clapping
emoticons are weird.

So, what are you studying in school now?

No response so far



This list consists of girls that I messaged on Jdate

First girl

Oct 20 Her: You look and sound adorable. I'd love to learn more.

Oct 22 Me: Hey, how's it going? You must be a very ambitious person who is very talented in the math and sciences.

No response so far.


Second girl

Oct 22 Me: Hey, how's it going? Is that person in your main photo actually you? I ask because you look very different
in your secondary photos.

Oct Her: Hey there, I'm ____. And yes the main photo is me! Like what you see? lol I know my hair kind of throws
people off cause I wear it straight and curly depending on what I feel like. So yep....blue eyes and golden
brown hair. Your karate looks intense! How long have you been doing that? Ready for the really
important questions.......

Do you prefer to play sports or watch sports?

If you had to pick one sport to watch on TV would it be baseball, basketball, hockey, soccer or football?

And what's your favorite dessert?


Talk to you soon,

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Oct 25 Me Hey Cassie, how's your week been so far? This week for me has been been somewhat busy with my work,
exercising at the gym, and martial arts practice. I've been practicing it for over 7 and a half years. I am
currently working towards my second degree black belt.

I like the main photo of you. You appear to be in great shape!

I watch some sports like football occasionally, but I prefer to play them. If I had to choose out of baseball,
basketball, hockey, soccer or football, then I would say soccer and football would be my favorites out of all of
them.

I tell what my favorite dessert is later.

So, what is your favorite kind of exercise?

No response so far.



There were a couple more girl like that on Jdate, but I haven't had the time to put those up yet.


All in all, I have been trying to follow alphabro's advice.