Last night, I went to a party and started talking to this HB9, and after a brief introduction I told her to come and sit down with me while we discussed mutual friends we had, and she said "why are we here? We should be go to (our mutual friends). After a while she said she had to give off and dance to this song that suddenly came on so I said I needed to get a drink.

We spoke again later and she couldn't believe I hadn't been out in a city near us and so I should come out with our mutual friends in a few weeks time, I told her I needed the toilet and to get me another cranberry juice and I came back and caught her walking out and and although she'd made it she said she'd left it on the side. I tried to use this as a lock-in, however can see how it fucked up.

At some point she did tell me I should come dance, however being the non-drinker I am couldn't muster up the courage.

As I was leaving she said "Nice to meet you" and hugged me. Before that however she said "I want to snuggle up and watch a film" in a room with only me and another guy in it, whom without being rude I saw as no competition. I then told her to text me as I'm shit at planning ahead and have a quite few things lined up soon, and so gave her my phone open on the dial pad screen and she put her number in.

So my question is, when should I phone/ text her?

Phoning today seems to me a bit too far seeing as we didn't speak all that much last night. However, I do not want to go clubbing with her and our friends as it's not really my thing so I just want to take her out for a drink really.

Any help is much appreciated guys.

sent her a text and see if and how she replies?

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"Life is a chance,take all the ones you get".

You're thinking too much about it man. Overthinking is what lands guys with nothing when it comes to women.

I almost always call you the same night or the next day. I never take much longer than that because attractive women have a lot of guys trying to speak to them all of the time. I have to capitalize off of the emotions that I made her feel at that moment while their somewhat still there.

And second; try not to ever rely on a woman to contact you. Don't put no weight in that, and don't expect her to. Whether she does or doesn't means nothing; you're the only trying to get with her, not the other way around. Unless that dynamic was established. But based off of what you wrote, it wasn't. So you have to chase her down until she's hooked enough to chase you.


I'm always for calling the girls. And just recently I'm been going with video chat. When i can see the girl, its so much easier to get sexual.

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