Hello guys,

I am new here. I just begun with style and mystery the game.

My biggest problem right now is that I open up very good but then somehow after 1 ~ 5 minutes
The conversations get stuck with standard shit like job, school and where she lives and I hve the feeling that it also gets like a interview.

I keep getting stuck, I have to find out how to go further. Can someone help me

Sometimes you get awkward moments in convo bud. It happens. I find it best to chat them up, make it comfortable and give off the most confident yet fun vibe you can and get her somewhere. If it is not possible to do so, grab the # and tell her you need to be out.

Dragging out the convo gives her too much time to disqualify you entirely. Think about it. You approach like a boss, comment on something and get her chatting for 2 mins. Give her an ole "that is a different point of view. Cool, but kind of different. I have to roll but I'm doing blah blah on such and such day. Give me your # I'll let you in on the details."

Too boss to get rejected.

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Okay it sounds pretty easy I will try it out

How do you cal this pattern

One of the best things you can do if you get stuck in asking her interview like questions, like
her job, her hobbies or her favorite color...is to do one simple twist as you're asking those questions.

You see, usually when a guy starts asking a woman question after question after question, he
starts to sound like an interviewer. And she feels like she's being prosecuted for triple homicide.

So instead of asking her question after question, you just add one thing to the mix - a COMMENT.

I've reverse-engineered the natural conversations and tried to figure out what makes some
conversations flow naturally, and some not.

I discovered that it is about this mix of questions and comments that create a PULSE in a
conversation.

Nothing in nature just goes up and up and up or down and down and down.

We BREATHE in and out.

Our HEART beats up and down.

And every conversation has a PULSE of it's own.

Asking question after question is like taking a breath after a breath in, without ever exhailing.

When you add the opposite to it, so a COMMENT, you exhale and give the conversation
that pulse.

I've found that every natural conversation flows in the structure of 2 questions...and then adding
1 commment.

So for example, you ask the girl:

"So what do you do?" (1st question)

She says "O I'm school"

You say, "Wow, a school girl...what do you study?" (2nd question)

She says, "I study Law"

You say, "Really a school girl and a lawyer...I have a lot of friend who study law but mainly
because they watched too many episode of L.A Law when they were kids..." (Your COMMENT)

As you can see, when you do this you give VALUE to the conversation, as opposed to just sucking
air out of her.

And to continue the conversation, you can just jump start it again with ANOTHER QUESTION.

Like this, "So it that the same story with you or do you study to accomplish a personal mission to
save the planet from injustice?"

And you keep going...

I call this conversation method FreeFlow because you FLOW through it freely.

I actually made a video about this, explaining the whole proces in detail. You can get it in the
link in my signature below if you want to learn more about it.

So use this, it works. It can literally transform your conversations over night.

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Yeah today I did try to switch between questions and comments with a girl in the bus. I just met her at the station.

It really worked. Thank you for that advice.

What I also used, was something I read about.

Not staring in someones eyes but switch.
Only when I was talking and sometimes when she was talking.
I did look into her left ey and then her right eye and sometimes also her lips.
But I do this very fast. It looked like she was getting more comfortable.

I also tried to let her contribute to the conversation.
Before I started with this PUA stuff I always thought I have to keep the conversation going when we are both silent.
But I felt comfortable with the silence and before I knew it she started telling me stuff and asking questions and sometimes I started directing the conversation. But I had control about when she got to tell something and when I had to tell something.

It was a great experience.

But I couldn't close her.

But I saw her looking at me when I was leaving