Completely brand new to the pua world. Met this girl on tindr and started talking to her. She's 21 and has a great body. I've taken her out on 3 dates already. Seemed to go well. I've always been kinda shy. Haven't kissed her yet but I'm pretty sure she would let me. She started sending snapchats in lingerie. Told her we should go to a hotel "now" and she agreed. Made a ridiculously dumba** mistake and told her "sweet, you're gonna be my first." And yeah, I'm 21 and haven't banged any chicks. Was raised in a very strict house hold and was always preached to wait until marriage. Well, she said that since it would be my first time, it should be with somebody "special". Long story short......didn't bang her that night.

I've got another date with her coming up in a week and want to bang her. What's a good plan to go about doing that? We both live with parents so I would really like to bring her back to a hotel, but don't know how to go from dinner and transition from there. She has mentioned she likes massages, so if I can maybe work that in. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

Skip dinner.. Bring her straight to the hotel.

C'mon man... You've already been pussy footing around as it is. She's gonna get impatient if you don't do SOMETHING like yesterday...

Stop being a bitch and pull the trigger.

Thanks. Well, my dumb self already told her we would go to a nice dinner. I just can't think of how to escalate and bring her back to a hotel. Any tips on transitioning or a smooth way of getting her into the bedroom? What should I say to her?

Go ahead and pick her up... When you get there, say "You know what? Fuck dinner! I've got a better idea!"

This.

Your plans do not need to be what you do. It just needs to sound good enough to get her out.

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Bold! I've offered to pick her up the past couple times but she has said she would prefer to meet. However, once we meet, I would drive her to the movies or wherever. If she asks where we're going, should I just tell her "a hotel"? Ha. I don't know how she would react to that. Maybe tell her that it's been a long work week and that she deserves a back massage and go from there? I'm pretty sure if I can get her into the hotel I'll be able to bang her.

Thanks for the replies btw guys! Appreciate it

You got the mindset! Now do it & be very assertive & firm about it. A confident man will not be questioned further by girls after their initial questions

Update: so we went out again and thing seemed to go well. Kissed her but wasn't able to really escalate from there (kissed her as I dropped her off). Meeting with her again on Tuesday. She asked what we were doing. Is telling her a massage date night a bad idea? Like I said we both live with parents so I'm thinking that could be an excuse to get her into the hotel and seal the deal. Would that be a weird date to ask though? Any suggestions? Thanks!

Tell her it'll be a surprise. Once on the 'date', go for a walk. Escalate. Don't take her straight to the hotel - she will not be in the state for it and could probably reject due to incongruence (i.e. you pussyfooted along the whole time; to just drive straight to a hotel would lbe too harsh of a change in congruence).

Going for the walk on the other hand, you hold her hand, kiss, sit down, make out a bit, tell her you have an idea or 'let's get out of here.' etc. Propose the hotel on the walk: the hotel idea just happened to come to mind when you were on the walk. Make sure her buying temp is up before you transition to the hotel.

If she brings up the 'sex' and 'someone special' line, just tell her to get her mind out of the gutter, you're just going to give her a massage etc. Escalate at the hotel.