so basically i was known as a smooth guy, always had clever lines, jokes for every occasion, perfect advice, and charming compliments....i still think the same but i always have a pause somewhere in a conversation or even every sentence to think of what i want to say.....it's hard for me to say what im trying to say, and im often stuck with a lack of words.....my English is horrible (probably from hanging around guys who are from the hood lol) and i want to get better at it, how would i become a better, smoother speaker again?...it use to come natural but now.....

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

Your entire state is dependent on her response at any given moment. Stop caring what others think, and be yourself.

what? no im saying my speech has gotten bad, it doesn't depend on who im talking to....basically i can speak whats on my mind without thinking or studdering, i haven't always been like this

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

get in touch with your "CORE" self. meaning remove the social masks you're used to when you're at work or meeting someone you don't know. You're your "core self" when you're around friends.

Stop worrying about messing up.... or being conscious about pauses in conversation. Obama is an awesome speaker but at the same time if you critiqued him he often pauses and goes "uhhhh" blah blah blah

let go of trying to walk that perfect line.

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