There's this girl that texted me that she doesn't see it fit to meet again because of "missing commonalities".
In pickup we learnt that you don't need to like the same music to fuck, so how to translate that into pickup jargon, what is really missing?

Please only answer my question.

Well, to answer your question, just say "Me too" alot and bullshit. Another way, (more honest) is to focus on the emotion and vibe. So if a girl says she loves skiing and you've never skiied, ask her why, she says it's wild and fun and whatever and describe something that you do that's along the same lines or how you like doing things like that. That way she thinks, well he has never skiied but I can picture us having fun skiing.

But deeper, if you want to fuck a girl, fuck her. If you aren't looking for long term with chicks, why play the "long term" game. If you wanted just to fuck her, shouldve made that move when you went on the date or whatever.

Not lack of commonalities. Whatever reason a girl gives you is bullshit. She just wasn't attracted enough. If she was, and she needed commonalities, she'd hunt for them and find them.

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RSDTyler

What would you reply? Don say "Next her" cause I won't.

mock her, "your absolutely right if you dont like ranch cornuts or Fruit loop cereal, then I dont see the point here. basically dont try to change her mind or ask her why she doesnt think u have commonalities, just mock her in a playful way, cause if its really a big thing she would say why afterwards. you can't be phased by why shes saying no

I'm one of the slowest to "next" here you'll find. I strongly believe in leaving girls in your phone or checking in with them months later. Girls are fickle and change their minds constantly. She's not attracted to you today, but tomorrow she's practically ready to fuck in a public staircase. That's just how many women are.

That said, I don't know your relationship with this girl. When you asked her out, she wasn't attracted. Generally speaking, if a girl isn't attracted, your best shot by far, is to see her in person. Get her in a good mood and ask her out. Facebook, texting, calling - all rarely work. Though if you must employ them, treat them the same way. Get her engaged and in a good mood before asking her out.

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RSDTyler

She just doesn't like you dude..

Her saying that is her way of nicely letting you down.

There you go.

As a few of the guys said above.

The things that women say are just them trying to articulate the feelings going on inside. A girl saying " Lets break up, I think I need some me time" - doesn't actually need me time. She just feels smothered by the guy she is with. She can meet a new guy the next day that won't smother her and be off with her.

So in this same light a girl saying " we have nothing in common" she just her interpreting the feeling " I'm not currently attracted to you " . And attraction is not a necessarily a physical thing.

I've been with girls that I had absolutely nothing in common with. It didn't work out in the long run, but we still were attracted to each other enough to give it a shot.

You don't have to learn to "fake" anything; you just have to learn how to strengthen your game.

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EddieWOTP, the questions is, what is missing exactly. Is it rapport, is it attraction, is the solution to be more distant, to be more dominant, or to be more inconsiderate/reckless?

"How to fake commonalities?"

Don't