Guys,

I'm relatively new to the game,etc. So basically, I've got a quick question on how to proceed with this HB7-8. I went out with her back in October once (didnt' get anywhere, still had way too many AFC qualities back then).. it went stale, we've exchanged some SMS text since (new years, etc..) anyway, she calls me today and leaves a message (its been a month I guess since we last had contact via SMS text) and she's like "its been soo long blahblaha, but then she gets to the point and is stupid enough to leave what she wants on the voicemail, some textbooks for some course she is planning on taking, and where did I buy my notes, etc.. ). ANYWAY, it hardly seems that she is calling to actually hang out,, I"M certain her only reason for the call is for these NOTES, etc... I know its AFC, but back in the day, I wouldn't have even picked up on this, but now I can. So what should I do to proceed. She's cute, but I dont' really give a shit to "game" her anymore, though I prob still wouldn't mind cuz she's cute, but ONLY on my terms.

So I was thinking of basically do the following: (please tell me if you think this is lame"):

TEXT her tomorrow, not call, and say "hey whats up, I got my notes from XYZ store, hope this helps.."

What do you guys think? Text? Call? Text sounds too weak?

Anyway, I think you guys get the drift, any help is much appreciated.

Hmm, also, I do recall a time after we met (probably during the stage that this girl was going stale) that she never returned a message from me. Anyway, I think not responding at all might be a nice way to get her back.. as I said Im in no way obsessed with this girl, in fact, I had practically forgotten about her until I rec'd the txt msg yesterday. I just want to come out on top. I plan not to respond, unless one of you guys can help me out on this.

thanks,

I don't think the txt would be bad. But that shoud be it. If she send a text back like, "thx" delete it and move on with life. No response needed. I wouldn't worry about coming out on top though. If she's a 7-8 you'll be coming out on top a lot if you live the game.

If it feels like an IOI, take it as an IOI. Thats why they look out for 3, so they can be sure. Game this girl, use every chance you can get. And dont be affraid to make mistakes, this the best way to learn. Read the basics and just go with it and see what happens. DYD website is a good introduction for newbies to understand how it all works. Call her and say you rang. Hint that your going to a party/event or something and say hey you should come along. Yeah the books may just be an excuse to see you.

Im not sure if you've already gotten back to her (it's been 5 days) but if this were my situation I would have called her back the next day and if she picks up, small talk your way into seeing her again, but make it seem like you dont care about anything else but friendship, when you see her use the basics -- remember, even though you're done with her and she's nothing, it's always good to keep friends for the future

If her voicemail comes up, simply leave a message saying you were getting back to her and for her to call you back, dont mention anything about books notes or stores.

Actually, Im almost certain that it was NOT an IOI, but simple because she needs these books, etc.. anyway, I guess trying to get in the friend zone is prob better right now, given that I've most likely blown it for now.... anyway here is where it stands. I called her back 4 days later and got voicemail, (DIDn't leave a message), she then called back the next day and I didn't pick up, and she didn't leave a message either. Im thinking call her in a week or so, and jus be nice to her, etc. and keep it at that. thanks for the input, i think i've got this one figured out for now.

1 day a girl will forget
4 days a girl will speak of it
1 week a girl will start getting curious
2 weeks a girl will simply be pissed off and remember it forever

The way women think is just complexe and something us men dont want to understand to its completion. PUA's know how to seduce, because of certain aspects of how they think, how they think, not even women know because they dont even know what they want.

2 weeks, just to be nice.. Personally after 2 weeks I would just forget about it rather than have her pissed that I havent called.

(This is all from my experience, could be different as Im geared torwards the club going females)