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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2014 1:19 pm 
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fUCK POF, easier to game girls offline, besides you can see what they actually look like, feel if there's any vibe right away without any buildup, reduce chance of projecting qualiies on her that don't even exist, and learn to handle your AA.

This.

Dude... You clearly just suck shit with women in general. Going onto a dating site isn't going to do anything for you if you suck dick at fucking pussy.

You need to learn how to understand women and how they think first... know what makes them tick and what they respond to. Learn how to vibe with them and understand emotion. THEN you can SUPPLICATE actually going out and meeting girls in person with online dating... if you still want to.

Get the fuck off your computer and start having real, face to face, interactions with warm bodied human beings and experience a genuine connection with someone. You can't experience that through a computer. Sorry to burst your bubble. I tell it like it is.

You wasted how much time sending out 500 messages? In that same amount time, you could have left your house talked to tons of different girls, ANYWHERE and actually gotten some experience dealing with REAL people instead of hiding behind your computer screen.

Quit being a pussy.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2014 2:35 pm 
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Yeah try and learn in person game. But regarding your profile, it comes off as creeper to me. Take some better pics and delete that section.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2014 2:41 pm 
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Yeah, as I've mentioned (and most others)... it's a physical appearance thing with online dating.

The pics are your biggest enemy.

There's no reason you can't do both online dating AND go out, though. Stick with it if you want to... but other posters here are correct in that if you make some approaches and get rejected a few times (or even better, have success), it'll help you.

Apart from that, OP: I would love to see what openers you're using and what you're sending these girls... maybe we can help you tune that up as well...


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Thats my current inbox on POF.. Send me a PM and I'll see what I can do for you.

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Thats my current inbox on POF.. Send me a PM and I'll see what I can do for you.

Yeah I have an auto clicker too ;)

I dare you to post printscreen your inbox and let us all see the thumb nails from very ugly women ;p

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2014 4:16 pm 
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You shouldn't even be doing online dating at your age bro. You're 35... It is very difficult to sell yourself to women on online dating sites nowadays seeing as women would rather prefer a man that is younger, more attractive, outgoing...etc. Obviously there are a few rare exceptions, but that is just how the rules of nature have made things work out. You can't really display those qualities on online dating too easily, especially at your age. I would recommend quitting online dating sites in general, studying and mastering up on your game, and tagging up with a quality wingman whenever you have mastered up on your social skills/game and going out and picking up some good quality women. I can already suggest that you are probably looking for one girl to have an extended relationship with, but I would HIGHLY recommend that you at least try and experiment with as many women as possible so that you can at least find the right one and not just get caught up with some random girl that you are going to end up regretting getting caught up with.

If all else fails, try and focus on your own personal development, career, family...etc. If you begin to first focus on yourself you will begin noticing your own personal success, you will also begin to notice your confidence skyrocketing and the money racking up along with it. I mean who knows? You may end up magnetizing the women around you after noticing the big change(s). Remember that you and ONLY YOU can truly pick up the woman that you deserve. Nobody else is going to find her for you.

I hope this helps, good luck bro.


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Thats my current inbox on POF.. Send me a PM and I'll see what I can do for you.

Yeah I have an auto clicker too ;)

I dare you to post printscreen your inbox and let us all see the thumb nails from very ugly women ;p

AUTOCLICKER FO LYFE!

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2014 5:09 pm 
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You shouldn't even be doing online dating at your age bro. You're 35... It is very difficult to sell yourself to women on online dating sites nowadays seeing as women would rather prefer a man that is younger, more attractive, outgoing...etc. Obviously there are a few rare exceptions, but that is just how the rules of nature have made things work out. You can't really display those qualities on online dating too easily, especially at your age. I would recommend quitting online dating sites in general, studying and mastering up on your game, and tagging up with a quality wingman whenever you have mastered up on your social skills/game and going out and picking up some good quality women. I can already suggest that you are probably looking for one girl to have an extended relationship with, but I would HIGHLY recommend that you at least try and experiment with as many women as possible so that you can at least find the right one and not just get caught up with some random girl that you are going to end up regretting getting caught up with.

If all else fails, try and focus on your own personal development, career, family...etc. If you begin to first focus on yourself you will begin noticing your own personal success, you will also begin to notice your confidence skyrocketing and the money racking up along with it. I mean who knows? You may end up magnetizing the women around you after noticing the big change(s). Remember that you and ONLY YOU can truly pick up the woman that you deserve. Nobody else is going to find her for you.

I hope this helps, good luck bro.
SMFH. What is with the online dating hate in the PUA community? Early-mid 30s is a great time to do online dating. How old are you that you even have a fucking clue?

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You shouldn't even be doing online dating at your age bro. You're 35... It is very difficult to sell yourself to women on online dating sites nowadays seeing as women would rather prefer a man that is younger, more attractive, outgoing...etc. Obviously there are a few rare exceptions, but that is just how the rules of nature have made things work out. You can't really display those qualities on online dating too easily, especially at your age. I would recommend quitting online dating sites in general, studying and mastering up on your game, and tagging up with a quality wingman whenever you have mastered up on your social skills/game and going out and picking up some good quality women. I can already suggest that you are probably looking for one girl to have an extended relationship with, but I would HIGHLY recommend that you at least try and experiment with as many women as possible so that you can at least find the right one and not just get caught up with some random girl that you are going to end up regretting getting caught up with.

If all else fails, try and focus on your own personal development, career, family...etc. If you begin to first focus on yourself you will begin noticing your own personal success, you will also begin to notice your confidence skyrocketing and the money racking up along with it. I mean who knows? You may end up magnetizing the women around you after noticing the big change(s). Remember that you and ONLY YOU can truly pick up the woman that you deserve. Nobody else is going to find her for you.

I hope this helps, good luck bro.
SMFH. What is with the online dating hate in the PUA community? Early-mid 30s is a great time to do online dating. How old are you that you even have a fucking clue?
Lol Yeah, if you're a fucking loser. Obviously it's working for OP. Quit being a fucking pussy and go out and actually game women face to face. That is the only real way that you will begin to see results. I don't know with type of woman would find a man in his 30's anywhere near attractive if he's going online posting petty ass posts and statuses about his "personality". The only assumptions that they are going to get is that the guy is a fucking loser.


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You shouldn't even be doing online dating at your age bro. You're 35... It is very difficult to sell yourself to women on online dating sites nowadays seeing as women would rather prefer a man that is younger, more attractive, outgoing...etc. Obviously there are a few rare exceptions, but that is just how the rules of nature have made things work out. You can't really display those qualities on online dating too easily, especially at your age. I would recommend quitting online dating sites in general, studying and mastering up on your game, and tagging up with a quality wingman whenever you have mastered up on your social skills/game and going out and picking up some good quality women. I can already suggest that you are probably looking for one girl to have an extended relationship with, but I would HIGHLY recommend that you at least try and experiment with as many women as possible so that you can at least find the right one and not just get caught up with some random girl that you are going to end up regretting getting caught up with.

If all else fails, try and focus on your own personal development, career, family...etc. If you begin to first focus on yourself you will begin noticing your own personal success, you will also begin to notice your confidence skyrocketing and the money racking up along with it. I mean who knows? You may end up magnetizing the women around you after noticing the big change(s). Remember that you and ONLY YOU can truly pick up the woman that you deserve. Nobody else is going to find her for you.

I hope this helps, good luck bro.
SMFH. What is with the online dating hate in the PUA community? Early-mid 30s is a great time to do online dating. How old are you that you even have a fucking clue?
Lol Yeah, if you're a fucking loser. Obviously it's working for OP. Quit being a fucking pussy and go out and actually game women face to face. That is the only real way that you will begin to see results. I don't know with type of woman would find a man in his 30's anywhere near attractive if he's going online posting petty ass posts and statuses about his "personality". The only assumptions that they are going to get is that the guy is a fucking loser.
And you know this how? Because you're some 20 year old who thinks he has a clue about anything? Men in their 30s are probably the most desirable of all men. You don't know this because you are clueless. Plenty of women salivate over men in their 30s online. You know why? Because men who are in their 30s have much less probability of being total fucking idiots like you are.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2014 5:44 pm 
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FACT:

Less desirable women go on sites such as POF to seek validation. I'm not saying they aren't looking for relationships BUT the fact is they get FAR more attention opine than they otherwise would in their day-to-day. For every 1000 selifies they take, they use the one at the perfect angle where most of the time they look completely diff in person.

Think about it for a sec. If you're a desirable woman why would you use POF unless for entertainment sake in itself. You'd walk out your front door and have guys throwing themselves at your feet. Most of the ones you see on POF are bottom of the barrel and go on there to be pedestalized by either creepers or wallflower type guys who have such massive AA they relegate themselves to approaches online, which are far easier on the ego ("Oh she didn't respond cause my message 4th message to her likely got lost in a sea of msgs from other guys").

Come on, grow a pair, man-up get out there and CHOOSE a woman of YOUR liking. Life's a fucking buffet of beautiful women if you make it so. POF is just another excuse to stay in your comfort zone. "I made no approaches while going out tonight, no worries I'll just go home and sit on POF" ...I think the No-Fap thing should apply to POF as well - if you abstain from using POF for a week or two, I bet you'll be far more aggressive approaching women offline knowing you don't have that 'crutch' which in your case doesnt seem to be helping anyway.


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SMFH. What is with the online dating hate in the PUA community? Early-mid 30s is a great time to do online dating. How old are you that you even have a fucking clue?[/quote]

Lol Yeah, if you're a fucking loser. Obviously it's working for OP. Quit being a fucking pussy and go out and actually game women face to face. That is the only real way that you will begin to see results. I don't know with type of woman would find a man in his 30's anywhere near attractive if he's going online posting petty ass posts and statuses about his "personality". The only assumptions that they are going to get is that the guy is a fucking loser.[/quote]

And you know this how? Because you're some 20 year old who thinks he has a clue about anything? Men in their 30s are probably the most desirable of all men. You don't know this because you are clueless. Plenty of women salivate over men in their 30s online. You know why? Because men who are in their 30s have much less probability of being total fucking idiots like you are.[/quote]

Bahahaha Okay bro, I guarantee that same 20 year old would pull dozens more women then the 30 year old EVER would doing online "dating". Good luck pulling any quality pussy there bro.


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You shouldn't even be doing online dating at your age bro. You're 35... It is very difficult to sell yourself to women on online dating sites nowadays seeing as women would rather prefer a man that is younger, more attractive, outgoing...etc. Obviously there are a few rare exceptions, but that is just how the rules of nature have made things work out. You can't really display those qualities on online dating too easily, especially at your age. I would recommend quitting online dating sites in general, studying and mastering up on your game, and tagging up with a quality wingman whenever you have mastered up on your social skills/game and going out and picking up some good quality women. I can already suggest that you are probably looking for one girl to have an extended relationship with, but I would HIGHLY recommend that you at least try and experiment with as many women as possible so that you can at least find the right one and not just get caught up with some random girl that you are going to end up regretting getting caught up with.

If all else fails, try and focus on your own personal development, career, family...etc. If you begin to first focus on yourself you will begin noticing your own personal success, you will also begin to notice your confidence skyrocketing and the money racking up along with it. I mean who knows? You may end up magnetizing the women around you after noticing the big change(s). Remember that you and ONLY YOU can truly pick up the woman that you deserve. Nobody else is going to find her for you.

I hope this helps, good luck bro.
Clearly you're retarded, and are talking out of your ass. You should do the human race a big solid by killing yourself.


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