I've been going out all the time trying to get with girls at raves, clubs, bars, and nightlife in general for the past 3 weeks and yesterday night I decided to give up on hooking up with girls through the nightlife because it just isn't working out for me. I feel like i'm beating a dead horse doing this because every time I go out to try and get with girls I always end up with the same result. Nothing. I feel that I can't be wasting any more money, time, and energy going out at night trying to hook up with girls if I will just keep getting the same results. I'm making all these sacrifices going out even if i'm tired, exhausted, or sleepy yet all this is getting me nowhere so I feel that it's time to pull the plug on this unless I can get a REALLY good wingman to help me out. otherwise it's just gonna be the same story over and over again.

I really feel that the only legit way I can hook up with a girl in the SF bay area is if I know people who can introduce me to their female friends. That's literally the only way that a girl will give me a chance to talk to her and not ignore me or blow me off like they have been doing in the clubs.


Anyway my point is, how many of you have experienced trying to hook up with a girl in the SF bay area? If so... was it hard for you since all the girls in SF are stuck up as hell or was it easy for you to get at them? Please share stories about it because I wanna know me and my friends are the only ones going through this struggle....

anyone?