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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 5:16 pm 
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Al of the above posts are correct.

She essentially went camping with a group, one of which is rather wealthy. Wealthiness = easy fun. So he splashed out, she had fun = attraction. She spent time with rich guy, decided she liked him and then tested how it was with you when she got back. He won so she went to him.

HOWEVER, what she didn't count into it is the real-world. He's rich and works for an organisation. She had him all to herself whilst camping. Now he's back in the real-world where there is plenty of pussy especially for rich dudes. The attention she gets from him lessens so she relies on the "i miss you" to support her.

THEN, you go off, get laid and thus indirectly demonstrate to her that she isn't your "all and everything" because you now think even hanging out is a bad idea. Thats complete cutoff of attention for her. She had it all attention from you and sex from the rich guy. Now rich guy is probably gaming some other chick and you're doing the same. There's nothing for her. So she freaks out and loses control over her emotions. Tells you how easily she got over you in an attempt to get an emotional reaction out of you to PROVE to herself that you still care. You didn't you just went home.

First of all in situations like that ALWAYS make the outcome more awkward for her.

Her: "Oh blahblahblah, i got over you so far, blahblahblah"

Me: "Ok, i'm gonna stop you there, i'm leaving. We'll talk when you've calmed down."

Then just left.

Which is sort of what you did, technically at the moment you're winning. You got an emotional reaction from her and you are banging some other chick.

So my advice is leave it, continue having fun and let her come crawling back or better yet just like others have said. Just get rid of her, girls like this are poison. Trust me, i've been through a similar thing.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 6:38 pm 
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well the thing that worrys me, is that kid is kinda of lame, he told her he waited 2 years for her and that he loves her and blah blah blah. Shes kind of a control freak so maybe shes kinda into him. idk, i now she missis me from the emotinal reactions she getting and she even told me like a week before i cut her off. So thats why i need advice.

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well the thing that worrys me, is that kid is kinda of lame, he told her he waited 2 years for her and that he loves her and blah blah blah. Shes kind of a control freak so maybe shes kinda into him. idk, i now she missis me from the emotinal reactions she getting and she even told me like a week before i cut her off. So thats why i need advice.
DUDE! The advice is shut the f*ck up. Honestly. All the stuff that guy laid out is going to kill him. Let him be the clingy one, those statements he made are needy as f*ck, and you ride off like a boss into another pair of legs. Shutup dude. You have all your advice in previous posts, you are just looking for a specific answer and not getting it.

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OP, you're trying to be 'friends' with your ex, particularly so soon after the relationship's demise. Your attachment is still there obviously. You're clinging/hoping and she's fcking another guy.

It's time to show your self some respect, this will only get harder for you as things continue. She'd made her decision but you're lingering around hoping for scraps, to me this is AFC not so much the other guy. You're sitting here pondering away at what she may be thinking, or what she may do meanwhile your life is on hold. She holds no obligation to you and even if things end with her and the guy she can simply jump into another relationship with someone else.

This is unhealthy and I do not want to contribute to this without giving any other advice than cut all ties from her, accept that it's over so you can start building yourself up again and move on to find somebody worth your while.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 7:49 pm 
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ture i now she is emotional distressed also since her brother was at my place last night, she called him like 12 times telling him to leave then she walked across the street knocked on the the door and he went with her. i asked him whats up he told me that She was upset about me talking to you because you guys just broke up and she's still emotional, we broke up like 3 weeks ago and shes emotional because i cut ties with her

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 8:48 pm 
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She's going to have to get a restraining order on the OP.

Called it.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 9:46 pm 
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Like I stated I don't talk to her anymore

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This is the best thing that could have happened to the op. Now he will get to that point, where he needs to actually get good with women and understand women. He is in that stage of hitting rock bottom/loser with women stage.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 04, 2014 3:31 pm 
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She's completely up for you just knocking on her door at night, coming in and fucking her. That's my advice.
She can keep dating the rich guy, and you can bang her. Just don't let her claws get in you.

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This is the best thing that could have happened to the op. Now he will get to that point, where he needs to actually get good with women and understand women. He is in that stage of hitting rock bottom/loser with women stage.
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 04, 2014 6:38 pm 
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Yea she let me fuck her once while we were broken up and while she was talking to him

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 04, 2014 7:17 pm 
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Yea she let me fuck her once while we were broken up and while she was talking to him
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It's so sad when you say she let you fuck her once...

I'm with the restraining order theory, here.


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Never tried again its funny you say restraint order. Ps I fucked her a shit ton of times just talking about after the break up

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