I was the guy that ended up in the friendzone with a lot of girls. It's taken a while but now i pride myself on being able to get out of it and creating attraction where it once was dead but there's one girl i'm struggling to crack. She's quite shy but very stubborn, she wants what she wants etc.
She dropped a hint a few weeks ago that she wants to go on a date with me to a particular place, so today i asked her, kept it casual, planned it for our next free day (next friday)... and what did she say? "Maybe" ... the most annoying answer she could give lol. I don't know what to say to that. I'm thinking i should just cut her off for the rest of the week, get her missing me and then remind her next thursday or something.

What would you guys recommend?

lol my biggest problem is asking to go out instead of going out.....ask whats she's doing that day, if she says nothign then say "wrong we're going _____, it'll be fun" best to do it in person/on the phone, so if she tries to say no you can quickly come up with reason to get her to go..(most of the time they'll say yes)


you could get her missing you but you run the chance of her actually not missing you and you loosing her..im not saying be a bitch and run after her but don't just disappear for to long

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

yea waiting till the day before is too aloof, you didnt actually make plans with her, a maybe isnt a yes, its a keep trying