I'm missing how this is even an "anti-shit test"? Do you often have women say things like "I bet most of your exes hate you, huh?".

I'm not saying this is a bad topic to bring up. I make a point of doing it with just about every women I go out with. Nearly all of the girls I've seen were cool, and I'm still on good terms with nearly all of them. As in your case, it's completely true.

I have no idea how someone thinks this a DLV, as it means that A, you can manage human relations well, and girlfriends in particular. And B, it means you have a bunch of girls you've slept with who all still like you. You are in a permanent state of having options, even if you become a hermit and never left your house again, lol.

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It's a very congruent statement for me. Every girl knows they test guys they like. Call them out, they giggle cuz they didn't know they were doing it and they move on. Every time. It shows you've seen it before. It shows you know why they are testing you. And it shows that their normal bag of "chick tricks" is understood. It also shows you have a light hearted view of the matter and that the interaction is funny to you. It may not make sense to you, but it's ME talking, and when I do it it is normal and natural for me.

Can you give an example of a interaction, with responses so I can see how this would work?

I'm thinking that being good friends with your ex's still would actually be a red flag for a woman. If a girl said it to me, I'd take it as "oh...so you still hang out with your ex's...nice (rolls eyes)." There seems like many other ways you can display you have options that are better than this. A story about a hot girl, even qualifying her on what she has going for her besides her looks. I just don't see how this statement would shut a rude girl up. If she's rude she'd probably just say "No, all my ex's were jerks" and move on.

I take it you have few female friends and or rarely talk to them about relationships.
You are %100 wrong.
There really isn't, aside from showing her directly. Because this also tells her that you're cool enough for these girls to still hang out with. It means you're not clingy or a controlling asshole.

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I take it you guys have to overcompensate to build attraction so this may be where the difference in opinion lies. Because of my looks, style, and confidence, I typically have to underplay other females in my life because I get lumped into the player category on approach. Girls tend to assume that other women want me so I tend to keep the female friends talk to a minimum, otherwise they think I'm hooking up with all these friends or these friends are trying to.

I get the displaying your not a clingy or controlling guy, because then you wouldn't get along with your exs still, but that has nothing to do with shit tests or "not putting up with her bs" which is what this was presented as. I can see the merit of using it for comfort, but I won't use it because if a girl told me she hung out with her exs still it would be red flag in my book and would eliminate her from the ltr category because of the potential drama down the line. Telling a girl "I still hang out with my ex's and they still like me and I could bang them" in any form, is going to make a chick think "well, if we got serious, I'm going to have to wonder about him hanging out with his ex who still likes him and they have a history" which would make most girls run. Enough girls have told me that they stopped seeing someone or it was a red flag for them when they saw that the guy they liked was still friends with an ex. A chick even told me this week how it's a no in her book because her ex cheated on her with his ex. So you get the benefit of being seen as having options and not controlling, but you also become a bigger cheating risk in her eyes. And with many girls having baggage when it comes to cheating I won't risk it. As I said, I could say a story about taking my neice somewhere for her bday to convey I'm a good guy and I could mention a story with an ex to signal my options. Or I can talk about a clingy girl who's chasing me and how clinginess is a turn off. Better ways IMO without raising a red flag.

And if this is for one night stands or hookups, I don't get why ex talk needs to be brought up then.

If you or the OP can give an example of a situation this worked maybe I can understand it. Like when a girl is shit testing, you use this line, it puts her in her place and sex or even a kiss results.

Really good looking guys are playing a different game. I'm offering advice for dating well out of your looks range. I'm usually seeing girls 2-3 points above me in the hot scale, and not just physically attractive, but smart, interesting and cool.
Also not sure where you read anything about ltrs.
Awesome? I don't date exclusively. Never have, don't intend to any time in the near future. I also tell every girl that I date that I'm seeing another girl, but it's nothing serious. A few girls walk away from that. Most don't. But I don't do ltrs, and I'm not really sure why I even would. I tell them all the same thing. I'm not looking for a girlfriend, because I can't have an LTR because I'm moving next year. It isn't usually true that I'm moving, but it doesn't matter. She's perfectly free to see other guys, and I get that she may meet her future husband and need to stop seeing me then. That's cool.
I get us over to the topic of relationships some way or other. I tell her I just started seeing a girl earlier this week/last week. Then I tell her that I like her and think she's really cool, but I'm not looking for a girlfriend. I just want to hang out and get to know each other better. The vast majority of the time, she agrees to this. If she asks about the other girl, I politely decline to tell her, and say I have a policy of not talking about who I'm dating when the girl isn't present. Sometimes this talk is before the date, sometimes during.

Women were much more apt to sleep with me after I started doing this, than they were before. In fairness I've been doing it for sooooo long, I can't swear it's even necessary anymore. But it works well enough for me to not even want to experiment. Though I will say that the biggest component is the non-exclusivity thing. But telling her I'm still friends with the girls I've seen, probably tells her I don't just use girls(including her) for sex. Probably why it works in my case.

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