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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 4:43 am 
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first up... I have just started reading the e-book - What every BODY is saying.

A point he stresses - the 2 things you primarily need to learn to notice, is comfort and discomfort.

Being the rookie I am... I would like to know

How to build comfort the quickest way? what topic/s to strike up? How to structure my sentences to bring the HB of interest back to comfort land.

Any help will be great for me.... :mrgreen:


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 4:47 am 
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Be comfortable with yourself.

Make it seem like you two have known each other for ever/ can read each others thoughts.

Make her feel safe.

Make her feel like she can tell you anything.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 11:52 am 
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Be comfortable with yourself.

Make it seem like you two have known each other for ever/ can read each others thoughts.

Make her feel safe.

Make her feel like she can tell you anything.

I'll post more when I think of them

This.

Just make her feel comfortable. Hence... comfort. :)


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 12:10 pm 
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Yep, the two other posters are right. It boils down to making her feel as if she's hanging with a close friend she's known forever.

Now practically how do you do that? Touching is good (not creepy touching... kino touching), but also just being funny and non-threatening... (Non-threatening is not the same as being a non-sexual option).


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 7:15 pm 
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Women are responding to the energy and vibe that we are giving off. So if we approach them and we are comfortable within ourselves when we approach; they will respond in the manner in which we are presenting ourselves to them.

I've found that " Whats the quickest way" men tend not to excel at the rates of the guys that just genuinely want to learn how to do this. So in my opinion it would be wise to correct that way of thinking.

The building of comfort first starts with your building of the comfort you have around women; and the way to do that is just to surround yourself with them more and more each day. Because after all, women are most comfortable around the men who are most comfortable around them.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 11:16 pm 
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Cheers lads


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first up... I have just started reading the e-book - What every BODY is saying.

A point he stresses - the 2 things you primarily need to learn to notice, is comfort and discomfort.

Being the rookie I am... I would like to know

How to build comfort the quickest way? what topic/s to strike up? How to structure my sentences to bring the HB of interest back to comfort land.

Any help will be great for me.... :mrgreen:
Firstly, you have to comfortable of yourself first and also comfortable around her.

Secondly, the conversation that ‘build most comfort’ (I am just not get used with that ‘build comfort’ stuffs) and interested her most is always – herself. So talk about her, get into personal conversation about her, meaningful things about her, such as her dream, motivation, drive…. Pls don’t always talk about surrounding, it’s boring women Big time. Woman wants you to talk about her.

Doing these two things, that HB will become comfortable around you. As people in general only trust and comfortable around you when they know you know them; it’s not even about how much they know you, people in general only care about how much you know them.

And I think that’s a good thing because I don’t need to talk too much and I get to be a sexy, mystery man to her while at the same time I build up her comfort around me.

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