hey everyone, ill be honest i suck at keeping convos going, mainly because i can't get out often in this cold wether, being theres no gas for car, so i can't walk

anyways what are some strategies on keeping convos interesting and long lasting with people who already know you, and people who don't

i ask for both because most everyone at my school knows me, and has usually heard me talk or talked with me

and i need the random people convo topics for the setting of a mall

What this society needs is more tactics for generating material and less sharing of material.

Everyone is interesting. Just about framing it. Did you ever help a friend? Something unlikely happen?

I once woke up on the floor of a house in the ghetto with a white girl we met the night before, her black step dad kicked her, woke her, told her to cook me and my friend breakfast. Her mother than got up, he told her to go buy her booze, she told him to go buy crack, and he put a gun to her head. The girl just laughed and said, "Oh stop playing, you are scaring those guys." Was freaky as hell at the time, but you can turn that into a 20 minute story with enough details. Frame it the right way, making plans to escape and such, and its even DHV.

I was raised by my grandparents because my mother was unfit. DLV...
reframe... I was raised by my grandparents and always took care of my little brothers because that was my job. You have to take care of the people close to you.

Don't can material.... Just paint your life in the best possible way. Easy to remember, and you are always selling you. Works best for my ego.

Stop trying to be interesting to other people. What's interesting to you? What are you passionate about? Talk about that! I'd strongly recommend Juggler Method for learning conversation.

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I agree with that, Juggler's "coversational jujitsi" as he calls it would be a good read for you. MAke yourself interesting, dont try n make your stories interesting....make you interesting and the stories will become interesting...Juggler even goes as far go say "Talk about your grocery list"

um just to let ya know, im not that interesting, im funny, but its only in context with a crowd following

all i do every day is play guitar, or go on comp (and workout after school) and i don't know how to get a work permit to get a job so i have gas money

(sry bout all the bitches but im just telling it for what it is lol)

but anyway if anyone knows how i can get a work permit so i can get a job, hit me up plz thx

just use random stuff, girls like to talk about the most inane rubbish so let them. while they are rabbiting away about straps on shoes they are thinking "wow he really listens" throw in some cocky funny few stories abuot how you once paid for a strangers ticket on a train cos they had no money. anything at all the human mind can come up with all kinds of crazy stuff.