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 Post subject: can't shut off game.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 7:02 pm 
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This is kind of a funny post I just wanted to see if anybody else is like this. I found since I've started to learn game and learned hot to talk to women seductively I can't shut it off no matter who I'm talking to or the nature of my conversation.

I was at a coffee shop I got up to the counter the clerk was a lady in her mid 60's I was flirting with her. I go visit my grandma at the retirment home old ladies are like my you sure are handsome I flirt with them. I see a guy talking to a girl at a bar I'm like he's afc and gonna strike out with in the next 20 seconds then I'll swoop in. At the gas station girl at the pump next to me I say hi we get talking and I find myself automaticly trying to seduce her without even realizing it. Just kind of a sub concious reaction.

I just had a random thought kind of got a laugh out of it and wondered if any of y'all find you're the same way.


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 Post subject: Re: can't shut off game.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 7:23 pm 
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Hope for your sake you figure out how to when you actually get involved with a girl. There's no transition point from game into a relationship, so you'll have your work cut out for you.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 8:19 pm 
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If I were in a relationship I'd force myself to stop doing that. I'd never want to hurt a girl especially one I'm in a relationship with.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 10:15 pm 
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I am the same way. Naturally an extrovert and flirty. I need to 'shut it off' a lot. I tend to find I just amuse myself now and just do not touch, and I am fine with relationships. I see it at this, Attraction is not real until you Qualify and/or touch, so by not doing it I am in the good.

If flirting is who you are, just make sure you will not do anything you would not want your GF to do, and you are safe. If flirting is an act or something you do at first with your GF and drop off, then it can be a problem.

Be you. No matter what people say. I do not care what proper Game is if it makes me miserable. By being happy, I am successful in life. So will you.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 10:24 pm 
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Honestly I have never seen anyone like that and I couldnt understand being like you. Id like to hang out and see some time.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 10:31 pm 
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I'm the same. It's just better.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 10:42 pm 
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Absolutely.

And just let me say; that as long as you aren't going around fucking the world; there is nothing wrong with flirting within the context of a relationship. Any girl that you meet; likes you because of the way that you are. When that changes; her level of like for you will change. Men get this so wrong; they think they have to change who they are because they're in a relationship. Thats when the girl starts losing respect for them and looking for someone to respect else where.

The only thing that would change is your faithfulness to one person. The flirting you're doing is becoming a part of your character. Let a woman change that and you lose your identity.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 11:41 pm 
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I just cheat on my girlfriends. Constantly.

Everything is temporary. The reassurance of always having a girlfriend there makes me lazy and kills my ambition in life. My desire for more women brings out the best in me and keeps me fresh and attractive to my girlfriends because I'm always improving, never stagnating.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2014 3:46 am 
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Problem?

Being a guy who's attractive to women shouldn't be something that you do... It's just who you are.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2014 6:29 am 
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Why would you want to shut it off?

If you get a girlfriend, it is most likely because of the game you used. Shut it off and lose her.

It sounds like you are getting to a point in the game when it isn't game anymore. It becomes who you are, and honestly you are probably way cooler now than before.

I feel you though. I find myself flirting with fat chicks just because I can. Make the fat chick love you, and her hot friend will have to have you lol.


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 Post subject: Re: can't shut off game.
PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2014 1:28 pm 
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i wouldn't "shut it off" but if I were in a relationship with a girl I cared about I don't think it would be appropeiate for me to try and seduce women at a gas station, but I'd still talk in my flirting manner that's what she liked about me I stop doing that and she probably won't like me as well.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2014 1:54 pm 
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The ideal goal, I think, should be to make it just a part of your personality.

Parts will come and go, but certain aspects - joking around, abundance mentality, respect and boundaries - will probably stay.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2014 9:24 pm 
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To me, game is part of my personality. But it only "activates" when I find a girl attractive. If a girl is unattractive, my penis retreats back up in my belly! No, seriously... My whole body language changes to communicate "I'm not interested", which automatically turns the girls off. I find that convenient and very effective since I don't want their attention. Mostly it's just about avoiding eye contact a little, and not smile as much.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 5:24 am 
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For an erection lasting more than five hours, please talk to your doctor: VIAGRA.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 03, 2014 5:40 pm 
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For an erection lasting more than five hours, please talk to your doctor: VIAGRA.
I'll keep that in mind.


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