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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 4:52 pm 
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every time I talk to a girl, 24 hours later I realize "I should have said that instead of this. That would have been so much more interesting."

Is there any books that I could read that would help me think more on my feet and respond quicker? 24 hours later is not good enough, I need to respond within 5 seconds.

I guess I am looking for a crash course to prepare for the most frequently encountered situations. For example, she might say
"do I look fat?"
"I never drink alcohol"
"you dont look like the type of guy I would like"

I know someone is going to say "just practice" but practicing takes too long. I mean I cant mess up the next 2000 approaches. It's too painful :(

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 7:05 pm 
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Stop over-thinking this shit TODAY! Men are logical, and approach problems with a framework based on logical assumptions, your mind set is telling you, your going to fuck up, therefore you are going to.

There is no shortcut to ANY skill, you must put in the time.
There is no magic pill, (Well roofies, but that's frowned upon! lol), there is no magic words on the forums, webernet, or guru books, that will stuff your little weiness into a pussy.

I dare you to try this, dress nice, go to a club alone, and approach ten women. ... stop seeking validation, and simply ask questions and shut the fuck up.

I dare you to walk out the door NOW-TOADY and get embarrassingly rejected by the first girl who crosses your path.

You get shot down, so fucking what, your one step closer to your goal.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 8:51 pm 
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Honestly dude I don't see why people suggest going clubbing to try and get at some girls. I'm telling you.... most of them are either gonna ignore you or tell you to fuck off. Wanna know how I know? I've been clubbing and bar hopping for years and I just recently finished going out every night for 3 weeks straight and it got me nowhere towards my goal of hooking up with girls. It's the same shit every night so I felt like I was beating a dead horse so I just said "fuck it" and I decided to just wait and try something else if another opportunity pops up that DOES NOT involve going out and clubbing and trying to holla @ girls that you don't know at all. It never goes well.

My only real success with girls was when I still had friends who knew friends that were girls a couple of years back. I'm not friends with em anymore (it's a long story) but those were the only times that I had legit chances to hook up with girls.

Point is I personally think you're better off meeting girls through friends, through school, through work, or anywhere else BUT the clubs or bars


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 10:11 pm 
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I have the secret to being able to say witty stuff.....

For a low price of.....

PRACTICE.

How the brain works is simple, if you try and do something, and get POSITIVE SOCIAL FEEDBACK, your brain tells you it is a good thing, and you keep doing it. Stop thinking, start talking, when you get a laugh when you are not thinking and just flowing, you do it more often.

As per common situations, what you listed are Shit Tests or Congruence Tests. The more simple way to handle them is being non reactive, or not caring she gave it, ignore it, and move on. That solves most road blocks women toss at you. If it does not help the seduction, ignore and stack foreword.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 10:19 pm 
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Straight (bar) pickup is harder than friend game or online game.

It also frequently has better benefits if you do it successfully.

You can usually find pretty hot girls in bars, all concentrated. Will you sometimes get shut down or ignored? Sure. But who cares? If anything, that gives you the ability to practice all sorts of crazy shit.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2014 10:31 am 
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every time I talk to a girl, 24 hours later I realize "I should have said that instead of this. That would have been so much more interesting."

Is there any books that I could read that would help me think more on my feet and respond quicker? 24 hours later is not good enough, I need to respond within 5 seconds.

I guess I am looking for a crash course to prepare for the most frequently encountered situations. For example, she might say
"do I look fat?"
"I never drink alcohol"
"you dont look like the type of guy I would like"

I know someone is going to say "just practice" but practicing takes too long. I mean I cant mess up the next 2000 approaches. It's too painful :(


You can't cheat hard work man.

A book isn't going to make you better at thinking on your feet...

Practicing thinking quicker on your feet will help you get better at thinking quicker on your feet.


Just blurt out whatever comes to your mind and see how it works. You'll eventually build up a good arsenal of one liners and quips that work for you for all different types of situations.


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Stop over-thinking this shit TODAY! Men are logical, and approach problems with a framework based on logical assumptions, your mind set is telling you, your going to fuck up, therefore you are going to.

There is no shortcut to ANY skill, you must put in the time.
There is no magic pill, (Well roofies, but that's frowned upon! lol), there is no magic words on the forums, webernet, or guru books, that will stuff your little weiness into a pussy.

I dare you to try this, dress nice, go to a club alone, and approach ten women. ... stop seeking validation, and simply ask questions and shut the fuck up.

I dare you to walk out the door NOW-TOADY and get embarrassingly rejected by the first girl who crosses your path.

You get shot down, so fucking what, your one step closer to your goal.
I just want to make sure you read the comment above a second time.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 04, 2014 4:22 am 
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every time I talk to a girl, 24 hours later I realize "I should have said that instead of this. That would have been so much more interesting."

Is there any books that I could read that would help me think more on my feet and respond quicker? 24 hours later is not good enough, I need to respond within 5 seconds.

I guess I am looking for a crash course to prepare for the most frequently encountered situations. For example, she might say
"do I look fat?"
"I never drink alcohol"
"you dont look like the type of guy I would like"

I know someone is going to say "just practice" but practicing takes too long. I mean I cant mess up the next 2000 approaches. It's too painful :(
A good exercise is always note down what you should have done in a book. Write it down & revise again and again so you won't make the same mistake again. As I know, many greay seducers included me are doing this exercise.

Another thing is seek wisdom from experience guy,absorb experience from them to know what's the right thing to do, like what you are doing right now.

Perhaps you can check out my blog. But I have to warn you 1st, material in my blog is only for advanced seducer, it might not suit you that much if you are a beginner.

But I do recommend some other books for beginner at my blog too, just check out 'professional dating advice'.


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