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| bartm | PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 3:36 pm | |
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Posts: 994 | | how do you find and respond to someone's insecurities?
I know that's a vague question so I will give an example.
imagine you are talking to a girl and you feel like she wants you to believe x about her. x could be anything. she wants you to believe she never crashes weddings. she wants you to believe she doesn't go to cheap hair salons. or she wants you to believe she is honest and never cheats on her tests.
how do you find/notice such insecurities? and once you find them, how do you respond? do you respond by agreeing or disagreeing? so for example, if she wants you to believe she never crashes weddings, do you say "yes, I believe you" or do you say "no I dont believe you"?
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| n2thevoid | PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 6:47 pm | |
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| hugge | PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 7:11 pm | |
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Location: Gothenburg, Sweden | | I would say "if you say so" and change the subject to something more interesting.
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