I guess all the men from Chicago, East Coast, NC, SC, etc.. who tell me that women out here in California are "very different" are all wrong. One guy from SC told me once, "women back home actually WANT to meet guys". And none of these dudes I came across even know nor care about the Pick up community. I guess they just need to be 'alpha' and exude confidence, and all the snob girls will just give into their needs

Idk why you are trying to argue about it, man. You asked for advice and now you are making excuses when you know what you have to do. There is no secret code or magic line you have to use on women. Display value to her and get her number. I've lived all over the country and been with women from all around the world. Women are women. Yes, cultural differences do play into your approach, but not nearly as much as you might think. When it comes down to it, women like a confident man that will make them feel good. Be confident, make her smile, ask for her number - do that, and if it doesn't work, then get back on this site and make " " at me.

Yea, good call you need that!

Anyway Rome wasnt build in one day keep practicing in till you got it!
Keep us updated bro.

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Aside from the anger, DS is %100 correct. Your little rant tells me all I need to know about you and your %98 failure rate. You fail because you hate women almost as much as you hate yourself. Go on a Buddhist woo woo mission and find yourself or something. Your aspergers can be compensated for to some extent, but not in day game. Join some clubs where girls who are also socially awkward join. That's your only hope, kid.
Yes, no one cares what a woman thinks! Fuck those stupid bitches, havin' opinions and stuff while ma dick needs a suckin' amirite? Fuck you slut!
Why do all these cunts not want to fuck me? Goddammit!
DS didn't say women prefer shy guys. [S]he said women prefer shy guys, being shy, than shy guys playing alpha fag. Which is what it sounds like you do.
Lol. Wow. So let's get this straight.
You start out by dismissing women's opinions, because having a vagina makes your thoughts worthless here. Then you proceed to whine that she doesn't have proper empathy for men? Seriously?

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oh look. we have captain-save-a-hoe in the house. hello. are you wearing any panties by any chance? you go girl!

No, DS by and large is indeed an angry feminist who often makes bad points. However, each thing she said was pretty valid in that post. You then dismissed it, not because it was factually faulty, but because it came from a woman.

This is why you don't get anywhere with women. You do not respect them. Only very physically attractive men can get with hot women while having a deep seething hatred for them.

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a femenazi lezbo bitch comes in here dissing the entire PU community, calling us morons. and you, her White Knight in shining armor, came to her rescue despite her immature, condescending, and degrading tone towards men who 'dont get it' or have no or little experience with women.

I love seeing clueless people like you defending this fuckery. you obviously never had bad experiences with women like this piece of shit that we are arguing about that probably, most likely, hates men. yet I am the one with the problem? when a woman shows me no respect and treats me like I am dirt beneath her feet, I am supposed to respect her? I am guessing you never dealt with some lesbians who are possibly the rudest creatures on earth.

But hey... make sure you stack up on those tampons so that you don't run out of them for the remainder of the year. I know how you girls are... well, I don't really. But I know you do.

Dismissing valid points(and they were) "because you have a vagina" is invalid. DS is highly disrespectful. Yet your counter was totally spurious. And your assumption that I was "white knighting" was particularly amusing, considering DS is a man. I just didn't bother telling you, as I thought it would be interesting to see where you went with it.
Yes, I'm clearly the clueless one here.

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oh god. this makes me realize how much of a clueless idiot you really are. a user name on a forum disrespects men constantly in every thread. yet one time it mentioned being a man you automatically think it must be true. you're even dumber than I thought. the condescending views of men, and all the negative emotions I see behind every post this moron makes lets me know it is someone who really really REALLY hates men. and who else could that be than some angry psycho bitch? I assume an angry lesbian who has problems with straight men and constantly turns them down making them feel worse about themselves than they already do. if it's a man, I sure would like to meet him or understand why would a straight guy who acts like he has no problems with women post on a message board filled with incels, virgins, and guys who have a hard time with women. makes me think why on earth a man would dedicate a big portion of his life belittling other men saying how pathetic they are improving themselves with pick-up trying to understand women, and life. think before you say stupid shit like this.

what was I really saying? let me make it even more clear for you... I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT A WOMAN THINKS WHEN I APPROACH HER! AND I DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT A WOMAN TELLS ME HOW TO APPROACH HER! BEEN THERE, DONE THAT! MOST WOMEN ARE IDIOTS WHEN IT COMES TO GUIDING MEN TO GET INTO THEIR (FEMALES') PANTS! if you think otherwise, you must be the world's biggest MORON to ever live. I mean, would you really listen to what women tell you when you ask them "how should I talk to women?" dumb ass!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=woI_UsUasY4

the only women I 'hate' are those that treat other human beings like trash. this includes stuck up bitches, lesbians, and feminists who all are a bunch of parasites that do nothing than judge people and pollute the planet with their parasitic thoughts, and attitude. this isn't just women, btw. I have met plenty of men like this who act superior like others are below them.

you get me even more upset than the idiot dissing all of us men here, because you sound like a complete captain-save-a-hoe, put on your C outfit already. and then you turn it around calling me a hater. what a freak show... reminds me why I left the PU community, and do my own thing now. even if that means going into a hide out figuring things out in my personal life outside of all this pick up.

Except it's not. Most of the PUA forums are, true enough. The reason I post here is because we have a number of other members that know what they're doing. Most of us agree that most PUA material is useless. We also understand things like looks matter, routines don't work well, relating to is more important than impressing, etc. This board isn't much like the others, in that we reject a good 2/3s of the common PUA industry BS.
Don't be sloppy drunk, be confident, be unique, don't be clingy and she has to be attracted to you to fuck you. That's all correct advice. You need to learn Womanese. Women don't use language the same way men do.

The only off advice there was the drink buying requirement. The one woman says to compliment something she's wearing initially over her body. Generally solid advice. She just made a bad example of that.

The "be a nice guy" advice was, again just fine. Look at the "nice guy" she described. Confident, good looking, not clingy, intelligent, sober. Yeah, those are all good things to be. You hear "nice" and think "weak". She said "nice" and meant "respects me and doesn't treat me like crap".

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When opening a girl I like I do the following:

1) Maintain good eye contact with a slight smile on my face
2) Speak slower, and in a deeper voice
3) After she spoke, I give a 2 second gap before I respond

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