I went to London with a girl last week spontaneously, and we were going to meet up for a drink last night, but she said last night wasn't good and so I said okay I've got other arrangements. She told me to meet her tonight but I said I have a party to go to (which I do), and I suggested we go to Brighton tomorrow to which she said "Maybe but I don't know what I'm doing (where she's staying tonight etc" so I jokingly said "come on, take control of your life". Brighton is relatively far away from us (an hour) and she'd have to drive however I said if she drives I'll get lunch etc.

So I said I'd give her a text later, but I'm starting to think she's probably finding me too keen? We didn't kiss last week as she knows about 2 other girls I'm seeing and she brought them up in conversation. What should my next move be? Suggest somewhere nearer? No fucking clue what to do.

Don't over think it. If you said you'd text her, then text her.

Also, if nothing's happened so far and she's already asking about the other girls you're seeing, she might be the type that wants something exclusive so don't be surprised if she asks for it.

No she's definitely not wanting something exclusive she keeps talking about how's she so happy to be single. I said I need to know what's going on so I can organise going to the gym etc and she said "Why don't you just go and not see me?" Jokingly and I just said "what?" And she changed the subject. Shall I hang back a bit ?

hey mate download Gamblers txt game pdf. That will be quicker than me explaining it to you, but he has solutions for the exact situation you're describing. Also if you feel you may have come off too keen look up the black dragon blog I recently stumbled across that really helpful advice to curb needy oneitisy over keen behaviour.